@Verstehen Said
I asked him if he ever dreamt of his ex..
Dumb question. Why would you ask that and why would you care?
@Verstehen Said
...he looked at me at said he never did..
I don't dream of my ex-girlfriends. Never have. I just don't dream about them... In fact, I don't have dreams about people very often... my dreams are more like floating thoughts...
Why?
Why?
@Verstehen Said
and I know many of you may think this is minor..
It is very minor... extremely minor!!!!
@Verstehen Said
its like for him to be lying over this ..
You are assuming he is lying. If you asked me that question my answer would have be "No", and I would not have been lying.
@Verstehen Said
it seems like he is putting her over me..
No. It is not. Even if it was a "lie" he was giving you the answer that he thought you wanted.
He was thinking of YOU.
You, however, are being selfish and small minded about this.
@Verstehen Said
I walked away and ended our relationship..
Amazingly small minded of you.
You are wrong.
You asked a stupid question that you never should have asked and did not need to be asked.
HOWEVER, you already had the answer that you BELIEVED to be true in your head.
He had no chance.
If he said, "yes".... you would have been mad.
If he said "no"... well obviously you were mad.
NEVER ASK A QUESTION UNLESS YOU ARE PREPARED TO ACCEPT THE ANSWER.
If you do ask the question:
A. Accept the answer.
B. Don't ask the question.
PS: Didn't you already break up with this guy for cheating on you? If so... quit being a child and move on.
If not... give the guy a break!!