@DivineBeautii Said
Ok Im not taking shots at anyone or Judging anyone.. Im sharing this in hopes to strengthen and open some minds of women and the reality to what it is...
On Face Book twitter and other sites period women and teens are constantly posting thier constant break up and make ups to the point thier own friends and family hate to see you hurt but tired of you constantly complaning about it yet take no action to make it right..
We as women are over emotional some more then others and and although venting is healthy its how we vent that is the problem.. I went thru the same phase of heartbreak and weakness in my past.. I use to post my personal problems to vent and plead my ex to change pour my heart out blah blah blah. In reality ppl don't need to know your suffering it just attracts Negative energy and shows how pathetic weak & stupid at least thats how others look at it... Because one minute you post your so in love your perfect the next day you post how he cheated AGAIN then the next you're happily in love like nothing had ever happen....
But I learned alot from my experiences, one thing I learned is to know my worth, WTH am I going to beg a man to be with me who doesn't want me at that a man who ain't worth s*** to lose in the first place... Some women/teens go thru hell with their partners cause we chose to believe the fantasy of happiness they sell but deep inside we know whats real.. The times I've suffer Its cause I chose to stay and believed that b.s. knowing deep inside it was lies...
We all want to believe this time its different this time hes changing the change is for some weeks maybe 3 months and back to the same ish...
Its not about playing hard to get thats just pointless too its about putting your foot down and knowing what you deserve.... If you constantly show how weak your love is for him and regaurdless you'll forgive him its obvious he will continue... Its easier said then done but its possible love never killed anyone but phycos... LEARN LOVE YOURSELF FIRST OTHER WISE YOU CAN'T EXPECT SOMEONE ELSE TO...
Moral is stop blaming the man for your suffering he might be a piece of s*** but you the one who continues to allow that piece of s*** to hurt you time and time again... Know that you are beautiful and a man should feel lucky to have a woman like you and if he doesn't appreciate you then hes not worth your time thier too many fish in the sea....
MEN - I KNOW WOMEN AREN'T PERFECT BUT THIER ARE GOOD WOMEN OUT THIER WHO DESERVED TO BE TREATED RIGHT....
@OP:
When you learn how to use the spell check, come back and tell this to us, again. I thought it was amusing, since you may have been telling us your life story in the third person.