do u think theres a difference between real love and passionate love??

i was watching a film da other day and it got me questioning some things about love.

do u think theres a difference between real love and passionate love? or do u think that in passionate love the passion dies then u have real love?
or maby u think that u cant have real love without passion??

do u think theres a safe option when it comes 2 love that maby that every person have 2 souls mates in der life 1 person who u get on well with b able 2 talk 2 nos theyl alway be there for u that ul always have a home money and food on the table u dont expect any romantic gestures or any surprises

or dat u have a man that is spontaneous that is always surprising u u may not have much money but u will never be bored and ul never no wat he will do next hes on predictable and excited.

which would u chose if u had a choice???

I think both go hand in hand. You can love someone, but not be passionate, but what good is that. You need the reminder of WHY you love each other.

For me, passionate love is real love. I do think that lust and love are two things though.

There are days that I want to smack my hubby upside the head with a frying pan but after 10yrs, I am as hot for him as I was when we first got together.

yea some times i think dat 2 but at others i think there both very different

you can be in real love,and part of it be passionate love,when you have both it's wonderful,and especially if it is with your soul mate,i was married at 24,divorced at 34,he wasn't my soul mate,i didn't even love him for the whole time,my 2nd husband was my soul mate,he passed away,last sept,he was my light out of the darkness,we could sit up in bed,just talking and before we knew it,it was day light,we could get each other's humour,sometimes i'd wake in the morning,and there would be a note from him,simply saying he watched me sleeping,he took my kid's in and loved them as his own,so much so that the eldest legally changed his name,to his dad's for hubbies birthday in may,i doubt there will be another soul mate out there for me,maybe another partner in year's to come,but soul mates,aint that easy to come by x

I think if two people are really in love-
the passion is there in every single thing
they do for each other.