"*a Thief, a Whore, and a Liar*" vanders

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20/F/, Australia Join Date: Apr 2006 |
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i really broke up with my boyfriend now... and it f**king hurts...
but i am just hoping that it was the right thing to do, because although i love him... i truly ended this relationship because i am soo totally in love with this other guy... and i have been told he likes me too but i just don't know... and i know that if nothing happens with this other guy that i would have lost my boyfriend forever...
I just don't want to find out that i am going through all this agony and that i am putting other people through agony... for no reason... if all works out then yeah... it will be hard still... but i would not have lost the two people i love sooo much and that are so dear to me...
and i haven't been able to stop crying... and then my X's msn name is 'time to try and move on' and i don't want him to, and thats selfish... but i do want him to because i want him to be so happy...
but i hate this and i wish it would all go away... but its not... 
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 jeanettesianrachel
Ogler 28910 points | | if your totally in love with this other guy, you didnt have much choice cos it wouldnt be right loving another male while still with your ex,he may not talk for a while but thats the price you may have to pay. |
 macca
Meister 1072 points | i dont know what to say  |
 dragonwars
Über-Minister 15396 points | | If you didn't love him as much as they other guy then he probably wasn't the one for you so you don't need to feel bad that things didn't work out between you. Let him move on and be happy and you go after the guy you think you like most. |
 vanders
Debater 5496 points | | i honestly think i just made the worst mistake ever... i really truly do... but i don't know...i don't know how to make it right or make it crystal clear to me... |
 cole
Minister 14178 points | you broke up with someone you really love because someone else told you that someone you might love likes you?
what if they were lying? shouldn't you have checked first? what if you've just broke someone's heart for nothing? mind you if you dumped him on a hunch that someone else likes you, you can't have really loved him in the first place so he's better off without you
Well there is some negativity for ya  |
 vanders
Debater 5496 points | | i feel like s**t now... i just threw away the best thing that i have ever had... |
 stefficles
Ogler 22867 points | I don't quite see how you could be soo totally in love with another bloke and yet be unsure whether he loves you back having only heard from someone else.
I think you need to consider your options for a while. It strikes me that maybe you should keep yourself single for a while until you know what you want, rather than getting things more complicated by getting involved with someone else... |
 macca
Meister 1072 points | as much as it kills me to say this maybe it might be better for you to stay single for a while (not going crazy) but just until you work out who you really want out of the two...
as in look deep inside you and see who you could really see yourself with then tell that person what you really think and see what they say??
im sure that if you make a bit of a mistake letting go of the current (or Ex now) boyfriend and you would rather get back with that person then in time they might want to re-consider...
just try and look deep inside yourself and yeah think off all the good times that you might have shared with both people and just weigh everything up
macca  |
 jd
Apprentice 35 points | if this other guy turley likes you go for it and see how itr works out
if you need any help or advice you know who is here for you  |
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