"*a Thief, a Whore, and a Liar*"  vanders
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hey folkies...
just aa tid bit of an update on me... well me and my bf decided that we were better off being friends... i am moving away from him to make sure that i get better (in the head ( been feeling very down lately)) and we decided that maybe it would be better for both of us to be friends...
its weird though... because i have been with him for just over 9 months and that is a long time for me and i don't really remember how to be just friends... i don't know how to not hold his hand when we are walking down the street... i don't know how to not kiss him, or not hug him or not snuggle him...
I know it is for the best in the long term because he has just been getting very hurt by me lately and i didn't want to continue hurtin him... especially when i was doing it and not even knowing it until later when i look back and think... f**k i was a bitch...
but yeah... its weird and its the right thing to do,... but i f**king hate it how the 'right' thing to do is usually the one that hurts you most in the short term... | |
chase
Meister
1268 points | | Sorry to hear about you and your boyfriend. They say once you have been intimate with someone there will always be a level of intimacy no matter how hard you try and ignore it, so I wouldn't worry too much about the being friends thing. Think of it as like you are making friends with him all over again, from the start, like a brand new relationship as opposed to the end of a relationship. I've found that attitude helped me when I was in a similar position. |
eab
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346 points | Hey vanders, not sure if you really want my input on this one so ignore it if you don't.
I'm still feeling the same way about my ex, and when i see her i have no idea how to react. I really hope you guys can sort this out for the best as i'd hate to see either of you get hurt anymore. Just make sure you don't hold it in like i do, it just hurts more that way.
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dragonwars
Über-Minister
15396 points | | sorry about your bf and on a side note that tv program really really scuked i hated it... |
rosewillow
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10735 points |
I hope everything works out for the best. |
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