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operaghost

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I've been MIA for a bit but I am back
June 05, 2008 @ 01:25:06 pm

Yes I did disappear for a bit. There had just been a lot going on and I tended to neglect my "online life". But I should be back now

Also my myspace had been deleted but I am back on
link [www.myspace.com]
I've had quite an exciting month. I had the pleasure of meeting Arch Enemy a few weeks ago

no way to really sum that up except that it was just a completely unreal experience and they were awesome. I uploaded some pics from the meet I had with them. I also got to meet Dino of Divine Heresey and formerly of Fear Factory at that same show.
A few weeks before I met Ego Likeness & Voltaire... all the picture are being uploaded now.

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TheForumSite Father of your child Über-Über God 48005 points	Busiest month ever! May 01, 2008 @ 09:12:40 am
	April 2008 was my busiest month ever with over 120,000 post! This beats the last busiest month ever, March 2008, that had over 85,000 posts. Additionally, more than 2/3rds of the busiest days ever were in April. There will soon be in excess of 2.2 million posts and 40,000 accounts. 25 comments \| Reply

operaghost Über Master Debater 9465 points	3/31/08 March 31, 2008 @ 04:33:03 pm
	I don't know what's worse. My best friend lying to me or my fiance.. More... \| 11 comments \| Reply

operaghost Über Master Debater 9465 points	03/28/08 March 28, 2008 @ 02:12:06 pm
	Things have gotten a lot less stressful and I think things will be ok. In other news my MySpace is now back. For reasons I had to delete it for a bit. Those of you who had friended me can refriend me again: link [www.myspace.com] Just reply here if you add me so I know who you are and I accept the add Reply

operaghost

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3/10/08
March 10, 2008 @ 03:14:19 pm

Yep it's true. I am 24 today.. thanks for all the birthday wishes

For the first time I don't really care that it's my birthday?

I mean it's a Monday to begin with (I hate Mondays) and I'm at work.
It's not like I can go out tonight and party... not that I would go out anyway.

Im not feeling much better than I did last week even thought I got more than enough sleep over the weekend.

For some reason my grandparents are coming down from Albany on Wednesday. I'm suspecting my grandfather is having heart problems again and that's the reason for the sudden trip. They never come down in the winter months. I'm worried.

I've also managed to completely isolate myself from any friends who have made contact with me over the past week. I don't know, I dont feel like myself and am tired of hearing how they want to help me. I appreciate but I'm tired of everyone in this "I can save you" type mood. I'm just in a crap mood and it's got to rid itself out.

The only thing I'm really looking forward to is my birthday present from Austin which won't be until 3/22. He got me tickets for La Traviata so I'm thrilled about that.

Now his birthday is in 2 1/2 months so I have to start brain storming on what to get him. Also think I may throw him a party since he is turning 25, NOW that's a milestone!

Maybe I'm just freaking out cause I'm 24 and am not exactly where I expected to find myself at this age.. not that I think I had a clue where I'd be to begin with.... but oh well

Happy B-Day to me

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operaghost

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Don't know if this is the right thing...
March 05, 2008 @ 06:24:01 pm

I've been needing to go back to school to get my bachelors/masters. Problems is I need to have my full-time job along with it so I can keep my medical benefits.

I might have found a solution. But it is a big deal.
I found myself brain storming about what to do and I found a possible solution, even if it's not the right thing to do. I will be discussing it with Austin, my fiance, because he has a huge say in this.

As I've noted a million times before we don't have enough money to have a wedding or move in together as of yet and it will probably be a good 3-5 years worth of saving.

My idea is that we both keep out living situations as is for the time being. That meaning me at my home and he at his until we can get an apartment.
We will go to town hall on a day off and obtain our marriage license and, well... get married. Only we would not tell any of our friends and or family about it.

Why would I do this?
Because if we are married I am covered under his health benefits and would not have to worry and stress myself over having/finding a full-time job to work while doing school full-time.

I could get a part-time job and be a full-time student.

I don't know if he will be able to lie to his whole family and everyone we know. Sounds wrong but, I could. I have no problem with not telling anyone about our "secret marriage".

I can see him having another problem, he wants to have the whole big wedding thing and "do it right".

I don't even want a wedding reception, etc anymore. It's not a big deal to me. As long as we are together (and sometime in the next 12 months living together) I am fine with the arrangement.

We can at a later date have a "ceremony" and small party for our family claiming that as our wedding day....

Would it be so wrong?

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