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Meister
1381 points
26/F/, Florida
Join Date: May 2008 |
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| enjoy your life one day at a time,don't let your life go by without enjoying it,you only have 1 life to live make the best of it while you still can. | |
loveis
TFS Monkey
41268 points | Words I shall live by. |
cduck
Cunning Linguist
9969 points | | Sorry, but that is just such glib crap...you can't just sum up life like that...that's just the kind of crap happy ppl. come out with 'cause they don't or can't appreciate other ppl.s problems...it's a free world...be like that but you might find you can't take you're own crap advice one day!! |
sweetheart5545
Meister
1381 points | cduck said:
Sorry, but that is just such glib crap...you can't just sum up life like that...that's just the kind of crap happy ppl. come out with 'cause they don't or can't appreciate other ppl.s problems...it's a free world...be like that but you might find you can't take you're own crap advice one day!!
um ok whatever |
loveis
TFS Monkey
41268 points | cduck said:
Sorry, but that is just such glib crap...you can't just sum up life like that...that's just the kind of crap happy ppl. come out with 'cause they don't or can't appreciate other ppl.s problems...it's a free world...be like that but you might find you can't take you're own crap advice one day!!
Not true..
It's the miserable ppl like me, who've been miserable for a long time who are living proof that her idea is the correct one..and of what changing your attitude can do in terms of happiness.
..yes, there will still be problems, but why let them stand in the way of at least 'trying' to be happy.. - when it's all over and done?
For surely, troubles are still going to be there, but why let them take control?  |
cduck
Cunning Linguist
9969 points | | Thing is it's like if you are anxious about asking someone out and ppl tell you not to worry and you just think...well it's something to f**kin' worry about...then she's says no and you're pissed off and somebody says there's plenty more fish in the sea and just expects you to go 'yeah...f**k it...i'm only in love with her...it's nothing to get down about...i'm glad, really...a lifetime of anguish...f**kin' great!!' |
calonso
Minister
11725 points | cduck said:
Thing is it's like if you are anxious about asking someone out and ppl tell you not to worry and you just think...well it's something to f**kin' worry about...then she's says no and you're pissed off and somebody says there's plenty more fish in the sea and just expects you to go 'yeah...f**k it...i'm only in love with her...it's nothing to get down about...i'm glad, really...a lifetime of anguish...f**kin' great!!'
That's why the OP was trying to get you to enjoy your life. You can't have the girl you wanted but you can choose how to feel about that. Be miserable or move on. Yea it hurts, but it's nothing to get all bent out of shape about because that girl is going to enjoy her life as she so deserves, so why shouldn't you? |
cduck
Cunning Linguist
9969 points | I dispute that you can 'choose how you feel about it'...that's what i hate about these glib philosophies...they're too glib and ppl. who come out with them think that you can apply them to life...You can't!!
and 'course she's going to enjoy her life without me ...she's not in love with me!! |
christopher1215
Apprentice
31 points | | This is the only life I get so I want to be happy and enjoy my life .There will be ups and downs but Im strong enough to work my way through them. I love the life God is letting me experence. |
calonso
Minister
11725 points | cduck said:
I dispute that you can 'choose how you feel about it'...that's what i hate about these glib philosophies...they're too glib and ppl. who come out with them think that you can apply them to life...You can't!!
and 'course she's going to enjoy her life without me ...she's not in love with me!!
These philosophies work but you have to choose to put them to work. Humans have the power to alter their perception and their mental state and in the great scheme of things a love affair that never happened is very minor. It may not seem that way now but you should be looking froward to your true love in life, the woman that's gonna truly love you as you do her and when that happens you're not even going to worry about what's her name. So why fret about it now? If you really think about it, it makes all the sense. You're just hanging on to your pain for virtually no reason. Which is easy to do no doubt, but not impossible to avoid. |
odie
Über-Minister
16886 points | | unfortunately we can not all be happy pending on whats going on in our lives. |
sweetheart5545
Meister
1381 points | odie said:
unfortunately we can not all be happy pending on whats going on in our lives.
yes that's very true,everyone has some kind of problems in their life but it's good to be postive about life now right I mean life is just so short and why waste it by being negitive about it. |
loveis
TFS Monkey
41268 points | sweetheart5545 said: yes that's very true,everyone has some kind of problems in their life but it's good to be postive about life now right I mean life is just so short and why waste it by being negitive about it.
Yes, that is the attitude I was trying to stress for one to 'adopt'..
Because, being miserable isn't going to change anything anyway, so, at least, TRY to be happy..
it's the only 'sane' thing to do for 'yourself'. |
sweetheart5545
Meister
1381 points | Yes, that is the attitude I was trying to stress for one to 'adopt'..
Because, being miserable isn't going to change anything anyway, so, at least, TRY to be happy..
it's the only 'sane' thing to do for 'yourself'.
yes that's the spirit |
calonso
Minister
11725 points | | It's called serenity, finding peace amid the storm. Being able to accept the things we cannot change. Because if infact everything does happen for a reason, than you can either believe that's a good reason or a bad reason. I believe it's all for a good reason because when I look back on bad times in my life and see where it went, I wouldn't change a thing. |
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