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29/F/Medina, Ohio
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So yeah. I have a "friend" and her name is Sarah. She has one kid already and another on the way, but no place to live. I let her stay with me just so that she can have someplace warm to be until she gets herself situated. She's done almost nothing to get herself out of my place. I didn't care too much until Legend's dad was coming back. I WANT him to live with us, and we are going to try and start again on our family. He even agreed that, as long as she was working towards getting her own place, that she could stay when he gets back.
Anyway, I live in low income housing, we have to keep our apt clean to a certain standard. If we don't, we get evicted. She is not working, and I have my kids in daycare and school, so she wasn't having to take care of them. All I cared about is that she kept the place up to that standard. Well, we just had an inspection, and I'm getting evicted. Brock, the kids and I have no where to go, he is currently living in Washington St, so he doesn't have a job out here, and I only bring in about 150/wk. We have no money to get a place. I've been working very hard on lining up jobs for him, and finding other places to live that won't do credit checks bc now I can't get in anywhere due to this eviction notice. It's been stressful.
Last night, I just wanted to go out and see my friend's band play. I haven't gone out in months, and the last time I went out was certainly not to see them. I had a terrible day, and I was really looking forward to head banging and letting go some of my stress. She had told me several times that it was okay and she would watch Legend for me. I get home and she's not here. She told me she was at her ex's grandfather's house, but then when I check my myspace, she's all talking about how she's out with her boyfriend, another friend, and the girl's boyfriend, and how she's going bowling later on. So I bust her on it. I don't care if I get walked all over just don't lie to me. She tries to lay a guilt trip about how I'm finding HIM a job and not her, and how, I'm more worried about where my kids and him and I are gonna go, and what about her? Like WTF!?! I'm not her mama.... I don't have to make EVERYTHING right in her life, and how in the hell am I gonna risk ME being out on the street so that she aint? Not my problem. I kicked her out last night. I feel terrible, bc she really doesn't have much of anywhere to go, but I didn't do that. I dunno.... what was I supposed to do anyway? Gah.... right, thanks for letting me rant that out!!
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Elite_Dragon
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30196 points | you did right squirt...she was using you for definate  i hope u guys find a new place to live i will be sending out some good thoughts for you guys  |
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