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rainshinesmiles last visited July 24, 2006 rainshinesmiles


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rainshinesmiles
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Public entry OH I THINK THEY LIKE ME
January 15, 2006 @ 06:08:33 pm
READ THIS.












A whole slew of loveing pictures. Featureing John Lee, Remy, and Myself.
:D

I just hung out with Ricky. It was nice. He wants me to start dressing preppy, doing well in school, and basically being perfect, and turning 17. At that point, he says, he wants to be with me. And if I dont screw him over, or lie to him, then he wants to marry me.
Hah.
We kissed. We drank a beer. I took a klinopin, and I didn't get in trouble with my dad. Things went well tonight. I don't know if Remy's mad at me or what, but she's hanging out with a group of people that dislike me greatly. Blinky, Gina, and the like.

Gay.
well if she hates me for that then she isn't a real friend anyway.
And she is, so maybe she's just upset about Blinky. I dont get why she lets his ugly a** put her through that, but whatevvvvvvvvv.
I also wanted to see John Leeeeeeee tonight, so I'm working on that.
IM ON IT

^^Ricky... My possibly soon to be BOYFRIEND. That would be WIERD as f**k if I had a boyfriend.
Current Music: Dido --> White Flag?

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tracyann38uk


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January 15, 2006 @ 06:22:36 pm
wow you got some great photos there, and I love your profile


paramour


Ogler
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January 15, 2006 @ 06:39:37 pm
I understand that you're happy but why would you want to be with someone who only wants to be with you if you change? I can agree with the wanting you to do better in school . . . but changing how you dress? What's next? The way you act? Will he start dictating who you hang out with everyday? G'luck.


rainshinesmiles


Points Whore
765 points
January 15, 2006 @ 06:45:22 pm
I know. That's the part I find f**ked about it all.
I'm unsure as of now.
Im gonna see how much he wants me changing before we even have a relationship
Then I'll go from that...


babyrs

Discipline Mistress

36102 points
January 15, 2006 @ 06:52:21 pm
Sounds like you had a lot of fun!!

But... with regard to Ricky wanting you to be someone that you aren't already in order to consider being with you - I'm really sorry, but the way I see it... I think that's not right.

This may not be the reply that you're looking for (please don't hate me!) , but I think you would be better off being with someone who understands you rather than aiming to be with another who may not be able to.

Whatever it is you choose to do, and whomever that you choose to be with, most importantly you have to be comfortable. Be with someone who accepts you for who you are, not who you appear or attempt to be.

But of course, the choices in your life and your decisions - is to be made by yourself, and you alone.

Meanwhile... have lots and lots of fun! Youth goes by too fast...


peanut


Ogler
20149 points
January 15, 2006 @ 06:58:20 pm
Ricky is cute and all, but not cute enough to have to change yourself for.

Be who you are, always. Life is just more fun that way.


kyahbean


Monk
33102 points
January 15, 2006 @ 07:37:55 pm
I think that changing yourSELF....who you actually are, is wrong on any account, ESPECIALLY for a guy. But if he's asking because there's a true reason to change...like if he wants you to stop drinking or if you do drugs and he doesn't like that....then that's a lifestyle change and that's a bit different.

To dress differently? Well, I think he needs to like you the way you are... Doing well in school? Well if he cares about you, maybe he just wants you to do well, and I don't think that's such a huge deal.

Instinct will tell you. And truly, if he likes you for YOU, he's not going to ask you to change anything that really matters to you.

And I love that pic of you with the glasses....it's adorable.


rainshinesmiles


Points Whore
765 points
January 15, 2006 @ 08:01:49 pm
Thanks for all the advice guys.
I think I concur...

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