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551 points
18/F/Montreal, Canada
Join Date: Aug 2006 |
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Yeah this sounds alittle crazy but my boyfriend "proposed" to me,
he said "i dont want to get maried, but i still want you to be myne.
to be my fiance so we no that we will get married..so that we'll stay froever." OK HOW CUTE RIGHT? ..well yeah. i love him. flattering. EXCEPT THAT WERE 16. well. i want to know what you think . | |
pinksparklystars
Ogler
25231 points | it is a little soon, but as least he made it clear that he does not want to get married right at this moment because that would be a little crazy. I mean if you guys make it throw the rest of school and everything that would be awesome.
you say you love him so it does not seem like there is a problem, just know that getting married at a young age is normally a bad idea. |
christa
Über-Minister
16712 points | | ya its a little too soo but you never know just dont rush things settleing down at a young age isnt good! |
Lili
Monk
35491 points | | People change soooooo much before the age of around 25 that getting engaged seems like a pointless thing to me at the age of 16. Who knows where or who you'll be in 5 years. Maybe it sounds dramatic, but most people agree they changed a LOT during that time, and in retrospect, any permanent decisions aren't a good idea until you've figured out who you are. I remember at 16 I didn't think I'd change all THAT much, I mean, you are who you are, right? But I learned so much about myself since then, things that even surprised me. I'd hate to think if I'd married a boyfriend I'd had at 16, we would be soooooo incompatible now! |
garfunkel
my beautiful rescue
Über-Moderator
38387 points | whoah! at 16 
umm I don't see why he needs to have it so your his fiance, even though its not like you guys are getting married now. Its so young to decide that you're going to be with that one person for the rest of your life. You;re still going through things and changing as a person
But in saying all that, its really sweet!   |
jsull17
Mega Über-Meister
3724 points | | you know, i agree with the rest, it is a little too soon but it is up to you............... this is going to sound really corny but do what your heart tells you! |
sweetrnsugar77
Ogler
26829 points | | Its ok to be together for a long time.....just dont rush. Things will work out if thats in the big picture, if not, enjoy it while it lasts. |
kasabian
Minister
10016 points | I dont blame him 
my parents were virtually married at 16 aswell, its all down to how mature you are, everyones different. |
pinksparklystars
Ogler
25231 points | kasabian said: I dont blame him
my parents were virtually married at 16 aswell, its all down to how mature you are, everyones different.
that is very true, i know that i 16 i was not in a place to be getting married.
but i worked with a lady whom both of her daughters were married inbetween 16 and 18 and they seemed to be doing fine. |
el_diablo
Minister
14242 points | | If you plan on staying together anyways, why complicate things with a ring and a title? |
prettyface
Über-General
551 points | | Damn guys. Thx alotttt. Nice to know people out there wanna help me and give me some advice. THANKYOU. |
matthemod
Debater
6632 points | of course it's not generalised to everyone, but when teenagers engage its usually they're completely sucked up into a world of puppy love where there is no repurcussions.
My friend did when he was like 15, and then broke up with his girlfriend...just use common sense. |
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