So he calls me today and starts to tell me that his ex came to see him on his lunch and she was giving him all the signs and he went for it and kissed her and well they started making out and his hands ended up in her pants and then he had to go back to work. Then he started to talk to her on IM when he got home from work and he asked her if she would come see hime again at work the next day and she was like no I dont't want a repeat of last time. So all the while he is on the phone with me telling me that I am his girl friend and he wants to be with me. Whatever, I just don't get it, I know that I am not in the position where we can really be boyfriend, girlfriend but why would you sit there and tell someone that you say you care about, your little sexual event with your ex-girlfriend and I am to be ok with this, I am so lost........