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| He has been misbehaving by the sounds of it. He was in a scuffle with another child, a girl by all accounts. Apparently he bit her. He denyed it then admitted it to his teacher and the head teacher then got back and denyed it again. I want to believe him but I know he is holding out on me. He is currently on the naughty step. I feel really bad but I know he is more than capable of the deception, thats horrid to say about a 6 year old but there you have it. I still don't know what to believe though. He is generally so kind and caring but now and again he gets a mega mean streak and lashes out. I understand he was fighting over some activity but thats no reason to bite someone is it? I feel really harsh punishing him when no one seems to know the truth but 5 kids said they saw it so what do I do? | |
angelcake
Points Whore Master
66189 points | | Is this your son who's currently going through and autism diagnosis? |
trillian
Minister
14558 points | | you have to be very calm and use a gentle approach. one of my boys is always in trouble for fighting and is very honest about what he has and hasnt done at school. the other week he was in trouble for fighting and the teachers were blaming him until they found out he was provoked and it actually was the other child who started it. my boy just stood up for himself and finished it off. kids at this age very rarely lie. take things slowly and see what happens. and remember there is always 2 sides |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
16394 points | It could be worse babe you could have Neive  haha!
In all seriousness though babe it is a phase, a horrible one at that and it doesnt last very long, maybe give Helen a call and ask for some expert advice, put her qualifications to use 
Tell him Aunty Dawn is very dissapointed 
I remember biting my mum as a kid and she bit me back, I never did again! 
OMG he didnt bite that big ugly butch bastards kid did he?!  |
drina429
General
244 points | | You have to know your child. If your know your child real good then you know what he/she is capable of and you know when he/she is lying. |
missclairerose
Meister
1299 points | I hope he didn't! I could be in serious trouble otherwise.
No it's not the child with the aspergers. It's his twin brother. Mind you that said the school are concerned that he may have a form of it too. It would explain alot.
Harry is a very intelligent boy he is also a very good liar but i'm better so I can catch him out. I just found out that he did do it. Initially I went for the hard approach of being a bit of a bitch really....so does not work, Durgh! So I change tactics and went all detedtive on him. I told him that I know exactly what his teeth marks llok like, which I do and I would go and look at the girls hand and I would know if he bit her. Did a whole long explanation and he was still wriggling out of it. Then because I know deep down he has the most amazing heart, I told him that if he really and truly was sorry and if he did do it then we could work it out. He wouldn't be in trouble with me and I wouldn't shout. As long as he said sorry and really meant it then we could move on. Then he started crying and said he was sorry. I knew there was just so much more tot he story. How could five other kids be wrong? don't get me wrong I know it is possible, but it would be so rare. Anyway it's dealt with. And you were right the calmer and more gentle appraoch worked a charm. Of course I still love him. bloody kids!  |
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