"how do you make lemonade if life gives you apples?" melissarae

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Meister 1168 points
25/F/North Fort Myers, Join Date: Jun 2006 |
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im having a threesome tonight. me my boyfriend and a girl friend of ours. ive never been with a girl before. and not really sure what to do. im not even sure if im comfortable with it, completely. but it is a major fantasy of my boyfriends. and my friend goes both ways, so she is willing to do it. does anyone have any advice? | |
 deadguy
Debater 7165 points | melissarae said: i dont' know. weve been talking to eachother and getting to know one another for a year now. we only started having sex 2 weeks ago. and he was cool with all that. in fact im the one who initiated the sex the first time. and no im not scared of him leaving me. he told me we don't have to do this if i don't want to. but at the same time part of me wants to know what its like. ive always been turned on by girl/girl porn. so i thought id like to try this, maybe.
so do it, what's the worst thing that can happen ??? he leaves you...big deal...at least you get to keep the memory |
 treebee UM - BONGO Über-Administrator 163241 points | Well if you really want to, then go ahead, its your life and your body, but please be doing this because you "want" to and not because he wants you to.
The girl on girl thing is a very common fantasy and it may work out, it may not.
Please promise me one thing. If you hate it, if you dont wanna go through with it, you want them to stop then you say so loud and clear and bollocks to them if they get s**tty with you about it. You CAN change your mind at any time.
Please dont let him film you.
Please be careful.
Thing is if you are truly comfortable with this, you will never regret it. If you are not comfortable then it may have repercussions on you later on.
Also have you considered that you may have to witness your b/f f**king this other girl? It can happen in the heat of the moment. |
 deadguy
Debater 7165 points | treebee said: Also have you considered that you may have to witness your b/f f**king this other girl? It can happen in the heat of the moment.
this is pretty interesting, i mean why don't people feel jealous when they do a 3some with their partner ? |
 melissarae
Meister 1168 points | | i know that they will have sex. and that is one of the things that is making me unsure about doing it. i will not let him film this. he had asked one time to film us but i don't think he will be asking for a long time again. i think i made it clear to him that im not interested in having any of that. i have considered meeting with her first, not telling him, and trying a couple things to see if this is really what i want or just what he wants. |
 deadguy
Debater 7165 points | treebee said: I would, i would drag the bitch by the hair and dump her out of the nearest window and then cut off his cock and slap him round the face with it.
But then its not for me
note to self : must ask gf before hiring a hooker to "accidentally" walk in on us having sex |
 melissarae
Meister 1168 points | treebee said: Good idea  See if it works or not first  And im glad you wont let him film it. If you had been with him a long time and knew he was committed to you then it would be different, but this early on its way too dodgy!
yeah i know a little better than that...unfortunately most lessons learned are learned the hard way. i think the hardest things about tonight is if he wants to have sex with her, and the fact that he wants us to go down on each other. im not sure i can do that. i mean i have always thought about it, but not actually sure when the time comes that i will be able to. i think im gonna drink a little before hand so i can loosen up and be more comfortable. |
 treebee UM - BONGO Über-Administrator 163241 points | Just see how you feel and if the little voice in your head is saying "NOOOOOOOOOOO" then dont force yourself for the sake of upsetting the others.  |
 markfox01
Über-Monkey 59269 points | Ive got one.. if you do this then next time it has to be 2 guys and a girl....  |
 melissarae
Meister 1168 points | markfox01 said: Ive got one.. if you do this then next time it has to be 2 guys and a girl....
see i wouldnt' want to do it with 2 guys. nothing personal or anything but i don't like guy on guy or anything. and i wouldn't wnat the pressure of keeping 2 satisfied. |
 melissarae
Meister 1168 points | | im just worried that things will be awkward between us or things could be really great and everyone will want to do it again. who knows? but i dont want things to end up awkward, seeing as i am hopefully going to be getting a place with her soon. |
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