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Mega Über-Meister
4178 points
24/M/Launceston, Australia
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ok so me and my GF have been living together since november and everything was going
awesomly.... i mean we had our little problems but in general we were fine.
but about 2 months ago she decided to leave and go and live in queensland (about a 3
hour flight away) and so we didnt see each other for 2 months and the only interaction we
had was on the phone. now that she is back it is so completely difficult, she wont let me
do anything for her!!! i offer her money (cause she doesnt have a job or anything) and she
wont accept it but her ex BF offers her money and she lets him give it to her all the time
and not like 10 or 20 bucks like 500 and 600 dollars at a time
what am i supposed to think? we are living together and i am supporting her but she wont
let me help her and when she gets money she goes and buys shoes and stuff and doesnt
help out at all...
grr its really frustrating me.......... | |
Forget_About_Me
Victory is mine!
Über-Moderator
66641 points | | Hmmm maybe since you're her bf she feels guilty taking money from you, but since she isn't with that other guy anymore she doesn't feel as bad about it. |
mazda
Mega Über-Meister
4178 points | fine i can handle that but she cou;ld at least help out with food and stuff while she has
money, i mean i am paying for everything for the next 4 weeks till she gets another job
is that too much to ask? |
catlady
Minister
10413 points | | Why is her ex giving her money? |
mazda
Mega Über-Meister
4178 points | jessica_lizette said:
Why is her ex giving her money?
i have no idea, he generally does when she asks for it
forget_about_me said:
Have you talked to her about it?
ive tried but she doesnt want to hear it she generally just changes the subject or
something |
catlady
Minister
10413 points | mazda said:
i have no idea, he generally does when she asks for it
That's really strange to me....I know that if I were in your position it would really bother me. I would find out why.  |
mazda
Mega Über-Meister
4178 points | jessica_lizette said: That's really strange to me....I know that if I were in your position it
would really bother me. I would find out why.
yeah it seems very strnage to me too, especially that she is very reluctant to tell me about
it. and i would ask the guy about it but he is in afghanistan at the moment so i cant
actually find the guy and ask him myself either,
dunno perhaps i am over reacting |
catlady
Minister
10413 points | I would never ask for or accept money from an ex....let alone not talk to my boyfriend about what's going on.
Does he know that you're with her? |
mazda
Mega Über-Meister
4178 points | jessica_lizette said:
I would never ask for or accept money from an ex....let alone not
talk to my boyfriend about what's going on.
Does he know that you're with her?
yeah he knows, before he left i used to hear thenmm on the phone talking about me so i
know she has told him, but wether she has told him differnt lately is another thing all
together, i generally qwould accept money from an ex but if i did i would tell her, even if it
was only 20 bucks, let alone if it was a substantial amount like 500 bucks |
catlady
Minister
10413 points | | I can't get over how strange the whole situation is....looks like you guys have a lot to talk over. |
mazda
Mega Über-Meister
4178 points | yeah , but it is only that one thing so at least we dont have a crumbling relationship and
we should be able to get ast this without a hiccup. although it is strange i still love her to
death and i would never want to leave her. |
catlady
Minister
10413 points | Well that's good.  Good luck  |
cobber
Ogler
23235 points | Sorry mate but only one thing to do, Kick Her Out NOW!
Mate, I reckon she pissed you off to shag some other fella and now she's back bleeding off two men.
Piss her off now for your own sake! |
sweetrnsugar77
Ogler
26829 points | | Cobber really has something there. If a girl is really into your relationship she isnt going to be calling, hanging out, or getting money from an ex. She is either thinking of, or already has stepped out the door. You just need to give her the extra PUSH. |
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