So my friend (girl) was dating another one of my friends (guy). Now they have broken up, and I have done everything in my power to help my girl friend get through it because she is absolutely devastated. I am way better friends with her than I am with her ex, but I've always gone to parties at his house and we text and hang out from time to time. So when I decided to go back to school, he wanted to throw a going away party for me. She absolutely did not want this to happen, so I ended up finding a neutral area for the party that she sulked at the whole time because he was there. So tonight I'm back in town, and she texted me asking me what I was doing, and I was practicing flute for class next week. About 5 minutes later, I received a text from one of her ex's roommates, asking me if I was coming over. I ignored the text, and continued on practicing. Then 10 minutes later I got a phone call from her ex, asking to please come over, even if for a little while. So I left, with every intention of being back in maybe an hour or two. Well I get there, and my friend calls her ex's roommate, and she is sooooo pissed off. She thinks that I lied to her, which I didn't, and was standing outside crying (yea she drove all the way over there!) So I guess someone else invited her, and I told her the only reason I didn't tell her was I didn't want her to be sad and cry. So obviously it backfired, and now she is incredibly angry. I tried apologizing but she doesn't believe a word I say..which is weird, because I've never lied to her before and I definitely did not lie to her tonight. EITHER WAY, I'm a horrible person, and I guess I should try apologizing again. I just feel like I don't deserve to be treated like this, too much drama and stress!!!!