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My dad was stressed out a bit from having to leave work during taking me to senior breakfast and graduation rehearsal and everytime he picked me up or drop
me off, theres something he goes off on. After graduation rehearsal he called me a vegtable and a dumbass, which I didnt like to hear after im trying to be exited
for graduation on June 2. As giving him the wrong direction to the graduation spot where we were doing a rehearsal, I had told him to take I Drive and take left
on amilia. What I missed out was Instead of it being I Drive it was actually I 4 and he let this small mistake grow and started to call me names. As I heard this I
grew angry and stayed quite. After the graduation rehearsal I was on the wrong side of the building and not where I was dropped off. After waiting on the wrong
side I was looking around making sure I was dropped where I was sitting but didnt know until I had the call from my dad saying where was I. I noticed that I had
went from behind the amway arena building to get in for rehearsal instead of front intrance where I was dropped off. I started to walk back to the front and as I
saw my dads car I heard him yelling "TAKE YOUR TIME", while cursing out the window. He wanted to know what time the graduation was going to start when I
was going home from graduation rehearsal. I told him to lose the attitude and to stop talking to me like that. He really didnt understand why I was angry with
him. It was easy to see that he had been yelling at me the whole day since morning when I didnt take the bus to go to the senior breakfast instead of my parents
taking me to the school. I had told him that the school bus gets to school 40 minutes earlier before the Senior Breakfast starts. He thinks I dont think about this
stuff, or better yet, not knowing whats going on around me. As getting home I started to say a few words and it grew, I had planned what to say to him once we
got home and when we did I let it all out and tried to get him to understand. I told him about the thing I wrote about him of how I apprecitated him, but I havent
should it to him yet. I also told him how his words can do a great effect on me. He thinks I dont care of what he says about me. As all of the fighting was in my
kitchen, he said im dumb as s**t after I told him how I dont like him saying those words to me. He left with him and I not say a word. He believes he is the only
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saegespaene
Über-Minister
16860 points | Quite a change from this morning! Sounds like Dad's got a short fuse, and you set him off, again, by not catching the bus, like he had expected you to do. Take it easy, for now, and concentrate on your graduation. If you don't push the issue, I think your Dad's conscience will start to bother him, and he'll come around to you. (At least, that's what I'd do, if I were he....)  |
vekta
Mega Über-Meister
4641 points | Yeah my mom was/is like that.
The way I deal with it is just accept the fact that she'll never be willing to really listen to me or herself. Just do your thing and get out of there when you can. Just take what you need to get through the s**t storm. You'll find yourself. You'll do fine.
It's hard to live in a house when one of your parents is an a** like that. Just look at it this way: survive of them until you can get out. Why not? It's free. They're going to need your help someday and that's when make them understand wtf they were doing...then you help them. You may be his son but you don't need to turn into him. |
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