"U Dont Kno Wat U Got Till It Is Gone"  juanmijares
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567 points
14/M/San Antonio, Texas
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has anyone in your family ever commited suicide
i personally hav never had the experience of having some1 in my family do that but one of friends dad comitted suicide on saturday- the day before mothers day in usa- the thing is her parents are divorced so does that mean that of she is not exactly sad about her fathers death make her less humane? | |
lilbear
Ogler
22091 points | Not at all, she may be in shock, or denial. Quite common with Suicide Deaths.  |
mlissabeth
Über-Minister
18332 points | | People handle death in different ways. Hiding it is probably just her way of coping. |
x_laura_x
Points Whore Master
63718 points | mlissabeth said:
People handle death in different ways. Hiding it is probably just her way of coping.
Exactly, I've been like that with my grandad dying. |
mlissabeth
Über-Minister
18332 points | x_laura_x said:
Exactly, I've been like that with my grandad dying.
Yea, me too.  |
iliterate_enginere
Minister
11377 points | nope. Maybe she didn't like him?  or maybe it just hasn't hit her yet. |
jgurl86
Debater
7028 points | | The first thing people usually experience in these cases is denial. theres usually anger or depression next but its different with everyone. or it could be like the person above me said, that she just didnt like him. |
tara2k8
Apprentice
17 points |  hey no its dusnt at all my parents have spilt up 2 and i myself tryed t commit suiside unfortrantly it didnt wrk
but wen i did du it my parents was both the same as they wud have been if they was tgether
hope ur friend is ok x
tara xx |
iliterate_enginere
Minister
11377 points | tara2k8 said: hey no its dusnt at all my parents have spilt up 2 and i myself tryed t commit suiside unfortrantly it didnt wrk
but wen i did du it my parents was both the same as they wud have been if they was tgether
hope ur friend is ok x
tara xx
It's never unfortunate that a tragedy didn't was prevented.  |
treebee
mmm pistol whip
Über-Moderator
153533 points | | It took a long time to sink in that my father was dead. Even after the funeral i didn't really believe it. I felt like i should have been mourning right from the moment i got the news, but i was in denial for a long time. |
tara2k8
Apprentice
17 points |
sum days i wish it had wrked bt then again i dnt ha ohh well
lifes a bitch
xxxx |
lilbear
Ogler
22091 points | I know 2 people, my uncle and a close friend that have committed suicide and it is hard due to the fact that I felt guilty for not realizing at the time that they were hurting that much,and not stopping them before they did it. It took me a long long time to get over the guilt of not being able to stop it and accept that they would have done it no matter what I would have said or done.
On the other hand if you're not close to the person or have been estranged for a long time, it may not be hard at all because by not seeing that person for years upon years whether Parent or not, to you they were already out of your life so it's not any different. Sad but true. Grieving is different for every single person and there's no right or wrong in how someone handles a death. |
uchihababe
Über-General
426 points | | yo Juan, take it from me, ur friend is just trying to cope with the emotions...bad way of saying...she is trying to end the pain she feel semotionally, with physical pain...I've tried suciide more than once I know her pain to somewhat level...just be there for her...in my dark days I could have used a good friend... |
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