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15/M/Brisbane, Australia
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I have been doing alot of reflection. On myself my life and some other pointless s**t. But i have found some things that i am a bit confused about. For example. At school (aka personal hell) when people call me stuff ie. a fag i dont go up to them and go "f**k you or something like that. Mostly it is because i dont wont to start a fight, because i dont do things i cant win. So does this make me a coward. I am not sure, it just seems like common sense to me. But alas i am not sure, Another thing i have been reflecting on is the friends that i have. My friends are %99 girls which doesnt bother me but god they can all be such bitches, there is alot of fighting going on in the group and it is so secretive, this girl wont talk to me and i have no idea what i have done. That annoys me..
But alas that is what i have been thinking about.
I am sorry if you have gotten to the bottom of this and gone "what a waste of time"
LOTS OF LOVE JAKE | |
ugly_ducky
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6086 points | | Sometimes it is good to stand up for yourself. Only you can decide when that time is. |
deadlieblackmamba
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5394 points | Hi Jake
Just wanted to let you know that sadly school is generally a hell hole; girls at school are generally a load of bitches and lads are usually a bunch of losers.  I got through school by trying to be friends with everyone, rather getting myself in with one particular group. This obviously means that I was never Miss Popoular, but it did mean I didnt have to depend on one set of people.
Kids at school can be very shallow and flippant. I remember the 'popular' group of girls at my school always ended up turning on each other, so they were never actually happy anyway, so you're better off out of any bitchy group.
My advice is this:
1. Be friendly with everyone.
2. Dont let anyone tell you you're not good enough - and if they do, well then their not good enough for you.
3. You're right not to try and get in to fights. But I found that words can often be a lot more powerful than you think. Never be afraid to stand up for yourself - if nothing else, people will respect you for that.
I'll end by saying that when I was at school I was slightly overweight, had a naff haircut and was a bit boyish. I thought that'd be my lot forever. I'm 26 now and very happy in myself and in my life - and you know what, sometimes I see those people from school - people I thought would always be at the top and honestly, most of them are losers, with naff lives and a bad attitude.
Love yourself first and the rest will come.
Take Care Dude,
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cubevision
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2448 points | I think the not fighting is common sense and as for the girl who won't talk to u, maybe, just maybe it's more about what u haven't done than what u have  Like, maybe she likes u or something |
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