"B Boy"  jay123
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422 points
20/M/halifax, United Kingdom
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why do girls play mindgame & hard to get wi us guys???? jus wondering & would like to know
as it pisses us guys of when girls do that
is there a reason or is it fun 4 girls????also when a girl tells all her mates she likes you then wehen ur with shes all different & moody & acts shes not interested why? 
yet again i am faced with the same problem she fancys me n evrything bt wen we come face to face its a diff story | |
kerrigwen
Über Master Debater
8275 points | Hey, I think it's fair game. Guys do it just as often, that teasing "I like you but are you sure how much I like you" game...
Personally, I aint into that flirting game. But, sometimes, depending on my mood - yep, if I'm with a good friend that I know well, I WILL tease him if lays the bait! Or with girl friends, even. 
Why? It's fun. Sometimes you need a break from being serious all the time, and old friends are the people to have that break with. 
But if they start to think it's serious (which they wouldnt, if they knew me) - I always make it clear I'm not interested like that. For the people that DO play mindgames...*sigh* I've come across quite a few like that, both male and female, some being from among my friends as well.  I dont understand why they do it either - and it's not 'light fun' to them either, they just cant help themselves. 
Some of the more wicked people might just actually like the feeling of 'power' or whatnot that they get from messin with people's heads. 
Sorry if you got messed with, hon.  Just remember to not go too fast, in any relationship. Girls can be fickle, especially when they're very young. |
sidus
Ogler
27340 points | nah, its aload of crap, and i dont see the point in it, cz if u leave it too long they'll give up, plus why waste valuable time anyways?
its better if people just say what they feel. end of. |
sidus
Ogler
27340 points | kerrigwen said: Valuable time? Am confused as to what you mean - you're trying to say you shouldnt take it slow? 
But what's the hurry?
You're right though, it probably would be best if everyone just said what they meant and meant what they said.
no didnt mean it like that, coz if ur playing hard to get, ur wasting time, but if u dont, u have same amount of time + but without all the crap at the start
duno if that made ANY sense, but it did to me  |
WildChild
Perv Magnet
Über-Moderator
105041 points | | I don't know why they do it. I've never been one for playing games . Either I like someone and I tell them or I don't like someone and I tell them. |
melissarae
Meister
1168 points | | the only reason girls play mindgames is cuz their stupid. their tryin to see what they can get from the guy, and usually they don't even like the guy for him but for what he can offer them. its stupid and a waste of time. if the girl really likes you she wouldn't play mindgames, she would be straight forward regardless of the out come. its girls that play mindgames that ruin it for the rest of us. quit flaggin and be front up. |
kerrigwen
Über Master Debater
8275 points | melissarae said:
the only reason girls play mindgames is cuz their stupid. their tryin to see what they can get from the guy, and usually they don't even like the guy for him but for what he can offer them. its stupid and a waste of time. if the girl really likes you she wouldn't play mindgames, she would be straight forward regardless of the out come. its girls that play mindgames that ruin it for the rest of us. quit flaggin and be front up.
Whatever. Only if your name's Paris Hilton. 
You sound bitter. :p |
treebee
UM - BONGO
Über-Administrator
163227 points | to be honest, some people just cant be straighforward, for whatever reasons. They cant express how they feel and indulge into a series of weird tests and rituals, without letting the other party know.
Humans are complex, our personalities can be a blessing in some respects and a thorn in our own sides in others.
Im very up front, yet from that, it has caused guys to freak and run. Whereas some guys really appreciate being completely honest and frank with them.
We are all different. I would just suggest that if you meet someone and you both communicate in the same way, then its all good. If you communicate differently, then its bloody hard work. |
rockoutgal
Mega Über-Meister
4791 points | | well....most do...but not me...if i like someone i make it clear how i feel.......i hate it wen ppl play games! |
jay123
Über-General
422 points | hard to get might be fun on the girls behalf but the guy jus gives up & then moves on. mindgames jus mess ppl up theres no point in them u might feel gd a the time bt its nt gd on the other person . i do like to flirt bt thats only givin a signal to a girl u like otherwise u jus play cool . bt wats wi toliet fingy???
& why do girls act diff around the lad they like ??? why cn girls like that jus be independent & meet ya on thier own & be straight up |
jay123
Über-General
422 points | | i understand women it jus them odd few stuff teenage girls like to do the thing wat do they gt out of it & wat goes thru thier minds wen they messing boys around |
sidus
Ogler
27340 points | jay123 said:
i understand women it jus them odd few stuff teenage girls like to do the thing wat do they gt out of it & wat goes thru thier minds wen they messing boys around
ok, but dont generalise, cz im a teenage girl, i dont do any of that..so.. |
ab176
Commander
56 points | it comes with maturity, and knowing how to express your feelings, mindgames can be dangerous and people dont relise how much sometime, if someone is playing mindgames with you just forget about them because unless youcan understand how to get them to understand how you are feeling, you are just wasting your time and will it will leave scars on you for future relationships,
toilet thingy?? umm i think because girls like to chat about the lads, and laugh and not be on their own?? maybe it a tradition thing, girls have always gone to loos in groups LOL |
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a question for girls????????
its weird, but maybe the go in groups to talk about lads??
and i think its abit stupid that a girl would take one of her friends when she goes to meet up with the lad she likes..cz if sumthin does happen, wouldn't that make the friend feel awkward??
