Banned  heyyouyeahyou
More Pics
Über-Commander
107 points
20/M/Bakri, Illinois
Join Date: Sep 2007 |
| |
love_insanity
Über-General
652 points | lonely
September 04, 2007 @ 01:52:14 pm | Ok well my bf broke up with me. almost 3 months we'd been together and then he leaves me for a reason i dont quite understand. here the story goes:
About three weeks ago one of his bestfriends died. He was really close to her so this had him fairly upset. In the most recent week, the second person he is closest to [still not me  ] ended up in hospital after having a heart attack. it was his grandad and on fathers day, he passed away.
the reason my (ex)boy gave me for breaking up with me was because as nice as he is some things can make him tempermental and he was afraid that the state he would be in that he would possibly physically hurt me.
so instead he broke up with me. no physical pain. only mental pain twice the severity.
but would it not make sense to want your partner to be there for you at a time like that? i know if i was going through something like that i would want to know that the people i am closet to are still there for me
i occasionally wonder if it really was an honest relationship. i know i was honest to him the entire time and meant every word i said. but while he may not of broken any promises his actions opposed his words.
anyhoo thats my life for now
and to be clear this is not attention seeking i dont expect people to reply with sympathy its just something i need to get off my mind right now2 comments | Reply |
Pages: Prev | Next |
Post in Forums 
This beats the last busiest month ever, March 2008, that had over 85,000 posts. Additionally, more than 2/3rds of the busiest days ever were in April. 
