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Über-Minister
17570 points
31/F/Ely, Cambridgeshire, United Ki
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I've just found out my daughter has ben playing knock down ginger with a few 'mates'...Im sooooo f**king cross with her!
The person they ben panking has a reputation in the village for being a bit handsy with the kids and another rumour about how he was beaten in a pub when he's apparently made inappropaite gestures to a young boy, now its all rumour and no facts but to be on the safe side i've told my girl to stay away from him and his house but a few of her friends dared her to knock and run away.
I've just had to explain what a peadophile is and how there are some people in the world that like to hurt kids for sick pleasure and I feel really wretched now, she looks so upset and shocked.
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treebee
UM - BONGO
Über-Administrator
165531 points | | There is always one if you know what i mean, on every estate, in every block of flats, there is the dodgy guy that the kids pick on. Unfortunately they arent all Boo Radley. Its sad to have to tell your kids but its survival. |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
17570 points | Yes i'm gonna keep telling myself that its all about survival, she's calmed down now thank goodness but I know we'll have questions later...i'm so crap at this, I know she's growing up and i have to let go slightly but this whole thing is make me feel wobbly now  |
footballgal
Points Whore
854 points | How old is your daughter? (Sorry if I missed this).
I think that it's good that you've told her, the last thing people should do is wrap their kids up in cotton wool so that they think the world is perfect.
You've done the right thing, but at least you've preserved her innocence. |
utopian
Über-General
406 points | wow - i think your seeking attention - proclaiming rumours and your own anger that needs management and attention over something trivial. - the guys in a pub and chats up a young boy ummm what is the boy doing in the pub? - where is the boys parents? -
meh I totally beleive that your journal entry is a creation for a sympathy vote utilising a paranoid dellusion for a collage of support on an issue that is a public outrage - thumbs down - |
angelcake
Bogey Man
72298 points | utopian said:
wow - i think your seeking attention - proclaiming rumours and your own anger that needs management and attention over something trivial. - the guys in a pub and chats up a young boy ummm what is the boy doing in the pub? - where is the boys parents? -
meh I totally beleive that your journal entry is a creation for a sympathy vote utilising a paranoid dellusion for a collage of support on an issue that is a public outrage - thumbs down -
I think you should learn either to say something nice or not at all. |
utopian
Über-General
406 points | angelcake said:
I think you should learn either to say something nice or not at all.
well i see something that is based on rumour for a person ustilising anger and swearing and cussing im sure thats acceptable behaviour for the community hey?
Rumours are wrong not too mention illegal without factual truth in support and not to mention the damages u can cause onto others for an allegation that has no merit. I guess i did say something nice and that is being the truth |
trooper
Minister
12504 points | | I say you were right to have the chat!!!!!!!!!!! isn't it best to be wrong and safe than to be right and sorry you didnt act on your gut instinct!!! Its innocent children we are talking about for f**k sake!!! |
angelcake
Bogey Man
72298 points | utopian said:
well i see something that is based on rumour for a person ustilising anger and swearing and cussing im sure thats acceptable behaviour for the community hey?
Rumours are wrong not too mention illegal without factual truth in support and not to mention the damages u can cause onto others for an allegation that has no merit. I guess i did say something nice and that is being the truth
She's protecting her child not hunting him down with a pitch fork and a flaming torch |
jistolme
Über-Meister
1657 points | | I think you did the right thing!!! It's parents that don't take rumors seriously and think it will never happen to my child, that are sorry after for not having THE talk with their child. Better to be safe than sorry. Your not going after the guy, your protecting your child. |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
17570 points | utopian said:
wow - i think your seeking attention - proclaiming rumours and your own anger that needs management and attention over something trivial. - the guys in a pub and chats up a young boy ummm what is the boy doing in the pub? - where is the boys parents? -
meh I totally beleive that your journal entry is a creation for a sympathy vote utilising a paranoid dellusion for a collage of support on an issue that is a public outrage - thumbs down -
Is that right?
Well I couldn't give 2 s**ts what you think f**k off out my journal if you dont like it  |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
17570 points | Also if the knob end had bothered to read the journal properly I did say it was all rumour and no fact but I had advised my daughter to just avoid the house and person just to be on the safe side.
Always one that shoots their mouth off with out reading, wanker! |
foxytrot
Mega Über-Meister
4617 points | Well, you did the right thing as a parent to tell her.
Hopefully she will keep that in mind and let her friends know she will not be doing that anymore and neither should they.
You telling her that may end up influencing more kids to stay away from him then you know.
Don't worry if she got scared or shocked because it's better that she's scared then hurt.  |
treebee
UM - BONGO
Über-Administrator
165531 points | hallucinogenic_lipstick said:
Also if the knob end had bothered to read the journal properly I did say it was all rumour and no fact but I had advised my daughter to just avoid the house and person just to be on the safe side.
Always one that shoots their mouth off with out reading, wanker!
obvious troll is obvious. |
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