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15229 points
31/F/Ely, Cambridgeshire, United Ki
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Cut a long story short my biological father is a twat, he left when i was a kid and went on to remarry and have a son.
I've always known about the half bro but found him a few days ago on facebook...f**king amazing really all these years thinking about finding him and it took me 10 mins of a network site lol.
Whats the best way to get to know a long lost sibling, has anyone else been in the same boat?
I'd love to tell him what our 'father' is all about as he says he didnt get on with him either but i dont want to taint his feelings any further.
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missclairerose
Meister
1299 points | Oh and apparently he's not a literary genius, 
Hun the only way you will get to know him is by eventually meeting him. But like you said internet relationship first and see how it goes.
I wanna lick your left nipple.  |
treebee
UM - BONGO
Über-Administrator
157564 points | Talk about your lives so far, there must be a million other things to talk about than your dad. Wait until you know him better before you discuss those kind of things. Ask him lots of questions about his life  |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
15229 points | missclairerose said: Oh and apparently he's not a literary genius,
Hun the only way you will get to know him is by eventually meeting him. But like you said internet relationship first and see how it goes.
I wanna lick your left nipple.
Lick away babe |
wingsy
Ogler
25803 points | I don't have a lot of time right now, but I'd be willing to talk to you about my experience getting to know my half brother & sister, if you'd like.  |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
15229 points | Im a bit pissed off now, i've emailed him 3 times and no reply now for 2 days but i know he's texting my sister...i should have known i'd get pushed to the side yet again.
starting to regret this.  |
surf_goddess
Points Whore
802 points | My parents split up when i was 10 and my dad went on to have a son with another woman.
I new my little brother up until he was about 9 and then my dad died so my brother ended up moving away and we lost contact.
Funnily enough i found him on Facebook too last year
We're slowly getting to know each ie e-mailing and texting etc, we're hoping to meet up at some point in the autumn once i return to the UK.
It was nice to find him and suprisingly we do seem to have a lot in common  |
surf_goddess
Points Whore
802 points | hallucinogenic_lipstick said: Im a bit pissed off now, i've emailed him 3 times and no reply now for 2 days but i know he's texting my sister...i should have known i'd get pushed to the side yet again.
starting to regret this.
Sorry i didn't notice that post before i replied! i hope it works out for you in the end |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
15229 points | | Still nothing, my sis's has even asked if theres a problem and no response...guess that tells us something. |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
15229 points | This whole situation is pissing me off now....he seems to be able to contact my sis with no probs but won't talk to me.
I dont get it, she's asked him if there's a problem he said no but i've still not heard from him
Honestly do i come across very un-approachable in the way i write things? |
dark_tink
Mega Über-Meister
3848 points | Give him a few days. As you said, this situation is hard on you, it's possible that it's just as difficult for him. You said your dad constantly told you and your sister that his son meant more to him(so totally wrong of him to do), not saying that he did, but he could have told your half-brother half truths or other things about you two. your half brother may be standoffish due to mixed emotions. As I'm sure you have some as well.
I wish you all the best and hope that you and your sister can and due get to know your half brother.  |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
15229 points | Finally got s reply, it was 3 lines long, banging on about his girlfriend and not one of my questions answered, he then started moaning about getting a phone number.
Bit shocked at the insensitivity and wanky attitude. |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
15229 points | I deleted him this morning, it just wasn't going right, he's half hearted lax attitude and inability to answer simple questions was starting to hurt my feelings so im sparing myself and cutting him off before it really got emotional.
Bit sad but what the hey i'll get over it.  |
hallucinogenic_lipstick
Über-Minister
15229 points | He emailed me last night to apologise for not hearing from him in nearly 2 weeks and then rattled on about how he nearly necked some pills cos he's sooo depressed about splitting from his girlfriend.
what do you do with a person like that? |
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