"One Number so many possibilies"  f4ll3n
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29/F/Sydney, Australia
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| Just how well do we know the people we think we know? Recently i have been told a huge lie but someone i though i could trust and it angers me more than hurts me now for the fact that i was so stupid that i beleived his s**t!
a friend only but friends are supposed to be the ones you can trust right?
I had really bad trust issues and refused to let myself be sucked in and it all changed i let that one person in and trusted them completely and for what?
This?>
This empty hollow feeling that i now have because i uncovered a lie that was told i feel sooo fookin stupid  | |
rockoutgal
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4791 points | Awww..........sozzie im not one for advice....but i hope your feeling a lil betta and if u wanna talk my ears are open!  ooh huggles mwah |
babyrs
Discipline Mistress
36102 points | Sorry to hear that...
As we grow older, we may find that the people whom we supposedly are able to trust may betray us, and when that happens, it hurts more than we'd ever think possible because it was unexpected.
We find out that people whom we believe will always be there for us - may let us down, and then it makes it so hard for us to place our trust in anyone else.
Perhaps it's not that we are totally clueless about the person; there may be certain things that we are unaware that they are capable of. Either ways, it's always sad when that happens, but I think, more than being angry, you are disappointed.
As I would be, and have been, many times over. |
treebee
UM - BONGO
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163432 points | You shouldnt feel stupid, ther person who lied shoud feel stupid. However we are all human and some people just cant help themselves.  |
WildChild
Perv Magnet
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105170 points | | I wished that I could say that I did'nt know how you're feeling but the truth is I do. I've been there a time or two in my life. Most recently was about a year ago , I had what I thought was a best friend for life and suddenly I realized whe was using me and she never really cared a rats a** about me or my feelings all she cared about was herself. My husband and I helped this girl out to no end , and in the end she screwed us over she was like a sister to me and now I would'nt piss on her if she was on fire. |
jafo
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399 points | It's kinda hard to comment accurately without understanding the lie, and the context it was put into... But what I will offer is:
You have every right to be upset, and feel betrayed, and be angry. Trust is a valuable thing, and something that is harder to offer the more it is rejected. If you've put you're trust in this person and they've let you down then I can understand completely why you feel the way you do - that's a hurt of a much different kind, and it may end up leaving quite a scar...
But having said that, I would ask you this...
Are you certain that the lie was malicious? That it was intended to abuse your trust?
Or could this situation between the two of you simply be a matter of different interpretations/expectations?
The answers are likely obvious to you, but I ask them without having any knowledge of what's actually occurred... And in my experience, when something upsets us, sometimes we only react to the surface information, and miss what lies deeper...
Food for thought... |
f4ll3n
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339 points | Oh it was malicious alright and well thought out... at least a year coming i mean i should have seen the signs when this person said to me that he had planned on doing this to other people but never me..... makes you wonder.
Having thought about it though i see it as Why should i have to worry about it he obviously isnt MAN enough to admit certian things and would rather run from the truth. Thats fine i want to be the one sitting back waiting for the day he realises what he did was WRONG and that kinda thing you dont do to friends  |
jafo
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399 points | Well that sounds much more like your in tune with what's going on so if nothing else it's a good thing that you've found this out rather than continuing on thinking that things aren't what they are, even if the finding out hurts, it's always best to know the truth...
It will bite him back one day...
... if nothing else it's already cost him a valuable person. |
seekurbliss
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7331 points | | Just another life lesson to learn from hun. |
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