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Ogler
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20/M/Tromsų, Norway
Join Date: Jul 2005

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Hypoglycemic Hallucinations
This is what I wrote the last time I got really drunk.

June 13, 2008 @ 03:43:13 pm

I'm slowly coming to terms with not being a boyfriend anymore. In some ways it's a lot easier than I expected, and in some ways it's a whole new world of pain. That's right, I haven't been broken up with in about 10 years.

All I want now is to stay friends, to not lose everything that's good about our relationship. Unfortunately, the odds seem to be against me. Also, there's still a tiny part of me that keeps picking at the wound, wishing for everything to be like it used to. I have no reason to keep that hope alive. I've made up my mind about this, and it's all up to her now.

I'm about to face a question no-one really knows the answer to: is it possible to stay friends after the romance is dead? I think I can. I guess the real question is: can you bring yourself to stay friends with someone you've let down in the cruelest way possible? That's what I'm asking of her. I hope it's not too much.

Please share your thoughts if you must.

P.S.: Over thinking is simply a part of who I am, so please don't hold it against me.

P.P.S.: Crap. I forgot to put in a title and now I can't change it

Current Music: My computer fan, which actually sounds more like a turbojet engine

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cat_eyes Über-General 436 points	June 13, 2008 @ 03:47:22 pm
	A thought provoking post. But, if you say you were so cruel, I can't imagine her wanting to stay friends, to be honest...just saying.

helennash

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June 13, 2008 @ 04:13:06 pm

My son was married to his wife for 13yrs and she was playing away and she finally told my son they separated and didnt get divorced for years after their separation They are the best of friends and in fact make better friends than being husband and wife . I could never understand how he could forgive her but it seems that he was right to do so Maybe your ex will be the forgiving type but only you know if she should I wish you all the best for the future

loveis Ogler 29785 points	June 13, 2008 @ 04:47:59 pm
	Only you know the circumstance..have faith

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