Not sure what to think now...

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Not sure what to think now...
March 04, 2007 @ 04:03:56 pm

So I decided that the whole long distance realationship I have with him wouldnt matter, that id trust him no matter what since we've always been so close, but now im not so sure

he's been really distant recently and well you start getting paranoid dont you? especially if you cant be with him to sort out whats going on.

Daniella convinced im talking out my arse, and that he wouldnt cheat on me no matter what as hes madly in love. She thinks the only reason why im thinking this is because my ex cheated (the only guy to my knowlege who has even cheated on me) and its batterd my confidence...but I dont know what to think anymore, he says that its all in my head, maybe it is, but it doesnt stop me worrying like hell.

Ive never been this insecure before, especially over a guy

I just want to see him

Current Music: Good Charlotte - keep yours hands off my girl

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treebee UM - BONGO Über-Moderator 155830 points	March 04, 2007 @ 04:05:52 pm
	tell him how you feel, without accusing him of anything. Say you are feeling that he is distant and if there is something bothering him that he can talk to you about it.

jmo Über-Monkey 53489 points	March 04, 2007 @ 04:07:10 pm
	Better to be paranoid than oblivious. The girl I like (who likes me too btw) at the moment lives in Australia. Which is too long-distance sadly.

pinksparklystars

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March 04, 2007 @ 04:11:33 pm

before i moved here i was 5 hours away from justin, and it drove me crazy, it didnt make matters better that his friends like to have parties all the time, but i just trusted him with all i had, and tried not to drive myself to crazy with the what ifs, because those are what gets you.
if anything just tell him that you have been worried about it. I believe that long distance relationships can work, but it takes both people to want them to work. Because if one party isnt trying then it is going to make it harder on the other person.

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March 04, 2007 @ 04:20:15 pm

See if I tell him what im worried about he'll overeact, and things would be in a worse state than what they are now.
we both want this to work so much, but I want him with me as much as I can and at the moment that isnt a lot

and jmo, you sound like you've got it worse than me

but im a moany bitch, and my friends have had enough of me going on about this, so thought id share my fears with you guys

pinksparklystars Ogler 25223 points	March 04, 2007 @ 04:26:27 pm
	your right, that is how justin would have reacted lol no problem complain away i dont mind lol, some times it is all that makes a person feel better how long till you can be together again?

disturbed247 Mega Über-Meister 4719 points	March 04, 2007 @ 04:33:00 pm
	supposedly seeing him tuesday but I havent got the money to go see him really, and to be honest im not feeling too well, so unless I get better really fast...not too sure i'll be seeing him. I saw him tuesday just gone, he came down here, and so i suppose that wasnt long ago, but its just hard

rehabilitation_please Minister 12206 points	March 04, 2007 @ 05:55:49 pm
	Awww that sucks

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