i feel so sorry for my dad


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i feel so sorry for my dad
July 24, 2008 @ 11:58:43 pm

my whole life i have to put up with s**t from my dad and him bouncing in and out of prison and jail and half way houses cuz of his him drinking constantly all the time and he even went out and got my brother drunk when he was 12 he doesnt see anything wrong with it and then he has never been a father figure to us he has always critized me about my weight and what i ate and drank and wore and about how i did things i had to do everything the way he did it or it was the wrong way nothing i ever did was ever good enough for him he always had a comment for everything and he ever since i was a kid he has pulled these pity me bulls**t to make people feel sorry for him and ya it worked for awhile and ya it worked for awhile but after awhile people just started to get sick of his bulls**t and he treats my mom the same like nothing she does is ever good enough for him and she has done alot for him and he still treats her like s**t he was involved with this total psycho bitch no one liked her i dont know what he saw in her and she got him arrested and thrown in jail right in the middle when my mom was trying to get money together to pay a down payment on a house and she had just enough to do it and he called her up and told her he needed to be bailed out of jail and that the bail wanted 250.00 and she got all pissed off but she went and bailed him out and she let him live here when he didnt have anywhere else to go and he takes it for granted he thinks its ok to run around and cheat and screw around on her and he is really prejudice i was dating this guy and he came over to my house and he brought his friend with him and his friend was mexican and the whole time he was sitting there judging him and i wanted to get up and leave but we stayed there and stuck it out if someone goes out and spends money on something thats nicer than what he has got he gets all jealous and pissed off and starts bitching about it like my brother went and got his license and bought this brand new 2008 chevy f-150 and its really nice and when my dad found he went and bought it he got really upset about it and a long time my dad gave my sister money cuz she was hurting for money really bad and she told that she didnt want to borrow money from him cuz if she gets money and he bitches whenever they buy anything and he went and gave my brother in law 200.00 and he just looks at like whats this for and he walks upstairs and she just looks at him like i told u i didnt want to borrow money from u and ever since she did that everytime he finds out they had something for them or for the kids he bitches and gets all pissed off like everytime someone spends money he gets all mad and jealous cuz they spend money and all he spends his money on is beer and alcohol my brother ended up in for 9 months because they were both drunk and my dad was driving and when they got pulled over by the cops he had my brother switch places with him so he took the fall for it and he got a dui and my dad didnt and while he was in jail he was going around talking s**t to everyone about him saying he will end up back there and when he will end up violating his probation and everything like he did when he went there and he treats everyone in his family like s**t and when my brother got out they told him he couldnt be around alcohol at all cuz they even saw a beer can there they would arrest him on the spot and put him back in jail and he was sober for awhile my dad did everything he could cause problems for it he wouldnt stop drinking and eventually my brother got back into it and his probation officer came over one day unexpected and busted him and my dad ran off and hid somewhere and let him get arrested he was almost sent back to jail for 2 years and he had to pay 1000.00 to get him out and my mom was really pissed he expects everyone to respect him and he dont even respect anyone he talks about behind their back so his actual family will feel sorry for him his brother got out of prison and he told him he didnt wanna do anything to mess up life and of course as soon as he gets out he calls up my dad and starts hanging out with him and now he is back to drinking again its like he is miserable with his own life so he wants everyone around him to be miserable too

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loveis Monk 31867 points	July 25, 2008 @ 02:20:18 am
	That's the alcoholic personality hon, they want to drag everyone else down to their level. Sorry for your pain...I really do understand what you are going through.

darkangel28 Mega Über-Meister 3719 points	July 25, 2008 @ 02:34:47 am
	thats why i would never marry someone like him i learned the hard way not to end up like him thats one reason why i quit drinking so much i didnt wanna end up like him

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July 25, 2008 @ 02:45:46 am

darkangel28 said:
thats why i would never marry someone like him i learned the hard way not to end up like him thats one reason why i quit drinking so much i didnt wanna end up like him

And a wise decision that was!
My hubby is struggling with alcoholism, so I know first hand..
Steer clear of guys who are heavy drinkers as well..
Although my mother left my own dad when I was just 2 for his drinking, and I heard here and there, what life with one is like, I never really understood till I've lived with one.
She really did spare me, my brother, and sister alot of misery..

I just wish I'd have listened to her and took things more to heart, and not ended up with a drinker myself..
I know you won't do this though, right?

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