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So me and my cousin haven't been getting along lately. He's a bit older than me and used to beat me up all the time. Well somehow we became cooler when I was a teenager. But things have gone from bad to worse.
About a year ago he blew up at me for no reason(he has a history of picking fights and drinking too much), while we were hanging out and I had to walk home. Then recently he blew up at me when he said "I'm doing great everything is working perfectly" (he was having a kid, he didn't want) and to which I said what's working, your not married? Now, he knows I don't think that's a big deal but he said I called his baby a bas$#%d (not my point at all) and later when I tried to apologize he banned me from his house and an important party he had wanted me to attend.
Now recently we've seen each other and this time I asked him not to do something (which he did), then he insulted me calling me a jerk and so on. Well I lost it and really railed on him. Afterwards he was still fighting with me suggesting we take it to blows, I apologized but he blew me off. I have since apologized by phone msg.
What else can I do he has never apologized to me and I'm getting tired of this. | |
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These past two years have been terrible. My job is deadend with little pay, my car is a piece of crap, and routinely keeps me in the poor-house. Not to mention I've been failiing my classes for these past two years. Probably because of all this other stuff. But wait there's more.
One of my friends recently died in a car accident, and my significant other was seriously hurt. Now because their family sucks I take care of them, taking them to PT and getting there meals and perscriptions. Best part of all is we were'nt even that serious and now they depend on me totally. I shouldn't have all these responsibility and I sure as heck don't know how to handle it. 
Current Music: Coldplay: Spies
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Its a regular morning here in California and my phone rings...I answer and an unfamiliar voice screams out explatives and I hang up. Yeah I got prank called. But, I know who it was. Some cohorts at work. I'm annoyed by the call. Simple explatives arn't funny, a story aka "this is the police you have an oustanding warrant...etc. But I'm more annoyed that I didn't give them my number.
See I left my phone out at work (big mistake) as soon as I went to go handle something I noticed one of these peeps in question head to my desk, as soon as I approach (after a minute or so) they scurryed away.
Immature suckers! Its called private property.
How should I respond?
A) Ignore them all week
B) Talk to them (though there's no proof it was them)
C) Let it go (until they call me again) | |
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So I've dealt with some untrue rumors before but right now I'm dealing with an annoying one. So one day I thought I'd bring a yummy snack to work, figs, anywayz I'm typing on my comp after a long morning and one of the dudes I work with says at a distance hey let me show you something. So I'm like yeah okay. Quickly I put a way my figs in my desk. As he sits down, I smell can smell the figs, and they stink. I look confused but the smell goes away, much like B.O so anywho I think nothing of it. Well, over the next few weeks I get the feeling 'dude' has been spreading rumors that I have a "problem" if you know what I mean. 
So I overlook it thinking he's just getting alaugh outa nothing, but now its been months later and this dude is being a complete D*%K about it making obvious jokes in front of me and other co-workers.
The way I grew up was, if you had to, you had some manners and left the room. If you couldn't help it you apologized. I have nothing to apologize for and now I just want to punch the smarmy punk in the face. I know I waited too long to dispell rumors but I didn't think it was a big deal, cause even when someone has done it in front of me, its funny for a minute (to myself) but then I move on.
I'm wondering if I should let him have it. | |
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I've been out of high school for mmm...oh crap 9 years now. Anyway, I haven't finish college and my dad's on my back about it. I go but um well I'm doing like nuclear-physics type stuff and its hard! My advisors tell me that I'm making good time. Whatever, I feel like I'm too deep in the program to change majors now. So I'm stuck. And my dad doesn't seem to feel me on this. Well he bought me a car (as an insentive) but I've already paid him for three-fourths and now he wants to let my OLDER sister have it for "a few months" while she finishes up her degree, cause I'm only working. I'm pissed to say the least. I don't think I'm in the wrong here. And the pressure really isn't helping. My sister got help to go to the college of my dreams and when I wanted to go there four years ago I was told No! Just cause I don't kick and scream about it.
Well now I'm trying to get a better job so I can really take care of myself and not need their financial help at all. My parents are great but this situation isn't. | |
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