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17/F/Aberdeen, Washington
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So we've been together for a while now. He seems like he really cares. He's different then all the other guys I've been with. I care about him alot I'm just extremely scared.
In june hes going to the marines. He ships off to california for boot camp and stays there for 3 months and comes back for a 9 day visit then leaves for 6 more months.
I'm really scared that he is going to go in and i'm going to be sitting around waiting to find out he's dead. I've never been in the situation that my boyfriend is going off to war.
I've talked to all my friends, family, and him about it. My dad says he doesn't think I'll make a good army wife, my friends say if I care about him enough I'll stay with him, and he told me he knows its alot to ask for me to stay with him while he's gone but he really wants to be with me. I want to stay with him but I'm just so afraid I'll fall in love and be hurt by finding out hes dead or something.
It's one thing to lose a boyfriend your in love with but another to lose them to war.
Also, another thing... I might be pregnant. I don't know what to do if I have a baby and he is off at war. He told me I could move to military base with him but still, I want my baby to know his or her dad. I dont know what to do. I really care about skot alot and I know he cares about me. He's already trying to find us a place, planning ahead on income, and wants to eventually have kids but idk. This is all alot for me and I'm really stressing because june isnt that far away and isnt as much time as people think it is to have time to think... grr
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angelcake
MILF :D
Twinky+
96084 points | Honestly? I think you're a bit young to be committing to being a mother and and army girlfriend.
I'd seriously think about the implications this would have on your life. You'd have to leave high school I'm assuming, which means no college. |
cosmickatt
Points Whore
805 points | | Well I'm not in high school. I'm getting my GED and have already done the assesments. Also, I already have a one year old son. |
claudibee
I will NOT!!
Ogler+
20366 points | | Think hard about this one. If you've already got a 1-year-old you'll have your work cut out with two small ones. It could get enormously stressful and you're so young, especially with the worry of your boyfriend. Also, it would be a shame not to carry on with your education. Things are getting harder, jobwise, than ever and some qualifications are vital. As a final word, think about the quality of life for your children. Can you cope with two? |
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