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So for 3 years I have been off and on with my babies dad. At first when I met him he was nice and he wanted to do everything for me. Over time he became an a*****e and I never realized it but slowly over time there was rules being set on how I can't see or talk to guys, where ever I go he has to know who i'm with, where I'm at, what time I'll be back, also if I was on the phone he had to know who it was and if I didn't tell them he'd flip out saying Who the f*** is on the phone!
We haven't been together in a really long time, but recently he started coming over again trying to hang out and while he was hanging out I didn't know it but he would call his girlfriend and tell her to meet him at a time the call me and say I'll meet you and completely blow her off. I never knew this till two days ago and I'm really mad. One day his girlfriend waited 4 hours for him on his porch and he never showed up. This guy is a huge jerk. I'm always afraid to talk to him because if I say something he always takes it the wrong way, calls me names, or says f*** you and michael I'm not his dad when hes mad. sometimes I get the feeling he'll end up hitting me. The other day when he was mad he flew down stairs at his friends like he was going to hit me right in front of my son then he stopped him self.
Before that had happened he tried to throw me off a balcony on the second story of a hotel. He claimed it was a joke when I was 3 quarters of the way off the balcony. As soon as i started screaming he pulled back over and said wow you actually thought I'd do that and I told him I wouldn't doubt it. Then he came over slamming on the keyboard after I got back in side and said I'm gonna throw you off the balcony again and picked me up. I had wrapped my legs and arms around the chair and when he was pulling me out the door to the balcony he smashed my hand in the door between that and the chair and almost broke it. So I had dropped the chair and he tried to throw me over again. I hate this guy and it is so hard to get away from him. He guilt trips me everytime I want to get away, and when I leave he'll show up at my door, call, message me, see me around town. I don't know what to do. I've put up with this s*** for way too long. I hate him and I can't get away. Even his family is scared hes going to hit me and they tell me to get away but when I try he follows. Yesterday, he came over and my dad dealt with him and flipped out and threw a camera case in his face because he put drugs inside of his camera case then put his camera case in my sons stroller. I didn't know he put it there till he called me and said he forgot something. Even though my dad took care of it I don't know if he will actually stay away. I'm scared. I don't know what to do.
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imkindofabigdeal
Points Whore
905 points | I would distance yourself as much as possible from this guy. He is bad news. I would document every thing he does with the police. File a restraining order. Don't be alone with him. Don't let your child be alone with him.
He sounds as if he needs some serious help.
Your number one concern should be for the safety of yourself and your child.
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iliterate_enginere
Monk
35276 points | | I agree. File for full custody for the kid also. That a*****e obviously doesn't care for him and isn't responsible enough to be a part of his life. |
plaidmushroom
Mega Über-Meister
4553 points |  That's a horrible situation, sweetie.
You need to think about your son. Keep him as far away from you and your child. The above comments both make wonderful points. I would take that advice.  |
nicebutevil91
Meister
1039 points | | Seriously, you need to get a restraining order and have CPS on his ass. |
cosmickatt
Points Whore
805 points | | well my dad has full custody so he cant take him so its all good on that and brandon if i tell cps the case will be drawn out longer and with the way they work around here they will take him from me and blame it on me even though i didnt do anything |
airethgemtis
Points Whore
901 points | You need to get a restraining order for him to stay away from you. If you don't your going to live like this the rest of your life (well, what life you have, if he doesn't kill you first.) I know what its like to be in your situation, only with out the kid part. But yes get a restraining order and then after that is done try not to go anywhere alone ever, just in case his dumb a** shows up, and if you don't have a cell phone you need to get one.
with all that being said, can i kick his a** please... grr, people like him make me want to be violent right back.  |
chisa96
Supreme Goddess
Ogler+
29435 points | | im agreeing with the restraining order thing... that way you can just keep your door locked and call the cops when he shows up... |
LadyBlue
Über-Meister
1761 points | | Be careful, he sounds dangerous. |
honorbound
Über-Meister
2855 points | people like that are usually only in it for some personal gain
i wouldn't give him anymore chances |
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