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20/F/London/Burnley, United Kingdom Join Date: Apr 2008 |
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Ever since i was born, my mum had been friends with Denise...Then they both had sons, my brother Mikey, and her son Stefan, around the same time, and us three grew up together....When i was about 15, the time i got ill, Denise started becoming unforgiving of my illness, she became ignorant towards me, and she just didn't understand how ill i was, and how much pain i was in. Things kept happening to annoy my mum more and more. After Denise had her second child, i was there to look after her, change her nappy, get her dressed, feed her, basically being her mother, when i was 15, and seriously ill. My mum didn't like this, therefore they fell out and i havn't seen her since....
Just found out that Stefan, her son, the one i grew up with for 16 years, was iin a serious car accident, which killed his best friend... I'm not quite sure how i feel, sadness, regret, i just want to go to the hospital and see him, but its been nearly 5 years. I just hope he gets better
No matter how much i hated his mother for all the things she did to me, you still don't wish it on ANYONE! | |
 DragonLover
TFS Monkey 40153 points | sad news hun. Does your mum know about it? She might want to be there for Denise. Even after all that is happen they were best friends for a very long time  |
 CarlyBoo
Über Master Debater 7579 points | | I'm not sure, i havn't spoken to her for a while...My brother knows, obviously with Stefan being his best friend for about 12 years. I'm not sure with whats gone on, Denise will even want to see my mother. So many things have been thrown back and forth between them and other people, it would probably make the situation alot worse for her... |
 WildChild Perv Magnet Über-Moderator 104677 points | OH that is so sad. I would go and see him if I were you. He needs to know he still had friends out there.  |
 CarlyBoo
Über Master Debater 7579 points | | When i say she did things to annoy my mum i mean like, once my brother was misbehaving, being a 10 year old boy, hes gonna be hyper, although i don't excuse his behaviour, she locked him out of his own house, closed all the windows, and when i opened one for him to get in, she threw a tin of cat food at him to stop him getting in... She did alot worse...It could be really bad if she was there when i went to see him =[ |
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Über-Meister 2600 points | | If you don't go to see him, you'll be missing an opportunity to patch things up and be the better for it. If indeed she acts like an ass, as you have suggested she might, you are still the better person for having made the attempt. Don't respond to her if she says something stupid. What matters is your friend. She is insignificant at this time. Your friend is the important issue. If only family are allowed to see him, then send him a post. |
 DragonLover
TFS Monkey 40153 points | If it comes to it babe, wait until you know she isn't at the hospital to go and see him.
It sounds like something you really want to do so don't let her stop you  |
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