Commitment

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blackenedangel
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Commitment
May 17, 2008 @ 01:03:42 pm

Okay... Got an issue here. Commitment scares me. It terrifes me. The feeling of someone depending on me and loving me and stuff just.... makes me shudder. When someone (That's not female friend or family) says that they love me it's scares me. But... I want to be loved, who doesn't?

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momof2

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May 17, 2008 @ 01:05:36 pm

blackenedangel said:
Okay... Got an issue here. Commitment scares me. It terrifes me. The feeling of someone depending on me and loving me and stuff just.... makes me shudder. When someone (That's not female friend or family) says that they love me it's scares me. But... I want to be loved, who doesn't?

you're only 14! You shouldn't be making any commitments right now unless its like.....school! thats how you get steered in the wrong direction

blackenedangel Meister 1245 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:07:02 pm
	momof2 said: you're only 14! You shouldn't be making any commitments right now unless its like.....school! thats how you get steered in the wrong direction Kinda late. I've had loads of commitments. Doesn't mean I can't commit to school either XD

kangthemad Über-Meister 1710 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:10:59 pm
	you dont have to be committed to anything you dont want to. you can love and not be committed. Don't do anything you dont want to.

jeanettesianrachel Ogler 28656 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:13:13 pm
	i was like that between my marriages and i didnt want no committment cos i was scared of getting hurt again,as soon as they started talking of long term things i was gone,perhaps your a little bit like that,you dont want the committment cos you don't want to get hurt. x

kangthemad Über-Meister 1710 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:14:57 pm
	her last bf i think was a bit mentally abusive..

momof2 Minister 10253 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:18:01 pm
	sounds like you dont have mech self esteem? you are really young to be worried all this commitment stuff! JMO

jeanettesianrachel

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May 17, 2008 @ 01:24:32 pm

kangthemad said:
her last bf i think was a bit mentally abusive..

if thats true,my heart goes out to you,my first husband was mentally abusive,i got out in 98,he still talks to my sis nd says he loves me,i havnt spoken to him for a long while my new hubby does but its 20yrs ive known him and hes still got a link to me via my sister although she tells him what i think of him,and he knows just what to say to get me upset.

kangthemad Über-Meister 1710 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:31:49 pm
	after we broke up my ex said some abusive things to me...dont let it weigh you down. abusers suck. but dont think about it.

helennash Mega Über-Meister 3325 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:34:25 pm
	Just enjoy the company of others you dont have to commit to one person not yet anyway I dont mean drop your standards but just enjoy whatever company presents itself and try and go out and about as a group of girls and boys much more fun in numbers look after yourseld and take care I wish you all the best

kangthemad Über-Meister 1710 points	May 17, 2008 @ 01:36:51 pm
	good point. just hang out with friends. Maybe you just dont want to be hurt again. If thats the case, then just take your time zand back out of anything you feel uncomfortable in...

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