@Sparklegirl Said

What a heartbreaking post to read, it brought a tear to my eye. I am so sorry that you have had such a terrible loss, it dosent matter that you were young- by the sounds of it you would still have made a teriffic mum to the little one. Of course you think about him or her each day- that was a part of you so it must hurt unimaginably

@Silly_Me Said

Two years ago,I lost my baby too, I was into my 2nd trimester and so I totally understand how you feel! A moment never passes where I don't have my son on my mind. I struggle so much on anniversary dates that I though I was losing my mind, my DR has diagnosed me with post traumatic stress. Through work, I'm having counselling to help me cope better and to help me continue with my grieving process, time will tell if the counselling has helped, but I'm sure it has already in the 4 sessions that I have had.

Please go to your DR and explain how you feel, you may need some help with your grieving and healing. living with this type of pain is the most difficult thing to do and from my experience, the emotional pain becomes physical. I think many people underestimate just how devastating it is to lose a child unless they have experienced it themselves.

Please PM me if you want a private chat, sometimes talking with someone who truly understands helps

@colonelbleep Said

Made me sad to read this, but, it rought back something that has bothered me some. My mother lost a child. I would of had a younger sister or brother. I think about that and wonder how my life would have been, I'm sure a lot different for the better. My issue can't compare to yours except I've learned not forgetting is healthy and can actually help you in years to come.

@XloveXmeXforeverX Said

i lost my child, i was 3 months pregneat i dont know what happen or why it happen i will never know, i will never forget that day, i was so young but so ready, i gave up everything for my child, and then i lost it, its been 4 years and i stil can get over it, i dont think i will ever, my child was mine, im sad i never got to see there face, or smile or here there laugh or get to touch them, or hold them, i wish i could of held my baby just for one sec and tell him/she how much i loved them, i fell in love with them the day i found out i was having a baby, and never will i forget that, my baby would of been 4 apirl 14th, and a day dosent go by that i dont think about, what if, how would my life be, how would they be, what would they look like, i always have a angel watching over me tho,

@Silly_Me Said

My other 2 children were devastated when I miscarried, I think the focus is so much on the mother, that the father and siblings often get a second though, a loss of a baby is a loss for the entire family! I know my kids found it hard seeing me being so upset and being in hospital for those few days, but we have all talked about it as a family and any questions my kids had, I answered as best I could. My baby Joseph is always thought of and my children add his name to cards that they send me I think our openness has definitely help us all.