"Still Thinking"  Cpat92
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Once in a Lifetime
Somewhere in the background,
Joined: Oct 2011 |
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| Well, yesterday I headed to work pretty happy, come to find out people at work were running their mouths off about us. It was my mistake because one of the people I told I was simply going out to eat with her was the other guy who likes her. Even though he claims that he doesn't like her, he took what I said and ran along with it. So once I found out I was really upset. I could barely talk to her and she could barely speak to me. She wasn't mad at me or anything it was just annoying. She knows I like her because it was completely obvious. I keep hearing things about the other guy and everyone says no one likes him and he has no "game." I believed me to be in the same category but I guess I have enough to convince her to go out to eat with me. Now with what happened yesterday I have to clear the air and talk to her this week. I have to tell her how I feel and be completely honest with her. I can no longer try to hide it. I don't expect her to accept it, but I do hope that she does stay friends with me if she turns me down. | |
Oisin
| | what the hell are you talking about man ? |
sTreetAngeL
root tedt ree
| From now on, keep your mouth shut when it comes to matters of the heart; until you have it all wrapped up. And even then be careful! People can be mean, and they can be jealous.
You are a man.
Talk if you feel the need to, 'direct' to the object of your affections; that way, the only one that can muck things up will be you, and you alone.
...learn from the experience. |
Cpat92
Once in a Lifetime
| @sTreetAngeL Said 
From now on, keep your mouth shut when it comes to matters of the heart; until you have it all wrapped up. And even then be careful! People can be mean, and they can be jealous.
You are a man.
Talk if you feel the need to, 'direct' to the object of your affections; that way, the only one that can muck things up will be you, and you alone.
...learn from the experience.
Will do. I guess I have been putting too much out there. |
sTreetAngeL
root tedt ree
| @CPat92 Said
Will do. I guess I have been putting too much out there.
You seem like a kind, and caring, and overall decent guy. Unfortunately, not everyone has your best interest at heart. Some are plain destructive; and do things for the sheer amusement.
I hope no damage was done here...Chat to the girl; be honest..Let her know you needed a guy to vent to or whatever words you find comfortable and fitting; and just be honest with her.
She will feel your sincerity; and likely will encourage you to feel comfortable to chat with her.
Take the first step, which is always the hardest; and find out.  |
Cpat92
Once in a Lifetime
| @sTreetAngeL Said
You seem like a kind, and caring, and overall decent guy. Unfortunately, not everyone has your best interest at heart. Some are plain destructive; and do things for the sheer amusement.
I hope no damage was done here...Chat to the girl; be honest..Let her know you needed a guy to vent to or whatever words you find comfortable and fitting; and just be honest with her.
She will feel your sincerity; and likely will encourage you to feel comfortable to chat with her.
Take the first step, which is always the hardest; and find out.
Thanks. I will do that. |
Sparklegirl
LL.M
| @sTreetAngeL Said
From now on, keep your mouth shut when it comes to matters of the heart; until you have it all wrapped up. And even then be careful! People can be mean, and they can be jealous.
exactly right, always best to keep relationships quiet until its more established |
Cpat92
Once in a Lifetime
| | Understood. I will keep quiet. I have been putting it out there too much. That's why it took this weird turn. I'm shutting up about it now. |
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Quick Update on the ending year.
December 20, 2011 @ 05:14:21 pm
