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New Post! Nov 25, 2008 @ 17:41:10#1
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i believe the family unit of a man and woman is the best place for children to be brought up, i really hate it when i read in the press that gay male couples and lesbian couples adopt children.

a child deserves to be brought up properly in a proper family unit, it is a a big disadvantage growing up in a gay family household. It will from an early age be brainwashed into believing what it sees is normal behaviour, this will no doubt affect the child on growing up and developing its own sexuality.

now i am not anti-gay/lesbian, i believe people have the right to choose what sexual orientation they are, but i do believe that if choosing the gay lifestyle, you therefore give up your right to be parents, anyone agree/disagree

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New Post! Nov 25, 2008 @ 17:48:49#2
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i disagree, a loving environment can come from a homosexual couple, and those raised by gay couples don't seem to be growing up deranged or troubled or anything.
they're mostly quite happy.

the only real troubles i've heard of is coming from homophobes who cause trouble for them.

if you claim that being raised by a gay couple will 'no doubt affect the child on growing up and developing its own sexuality' then please provide evidence of such.




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New Post! Nov 25, 2008 @ 17:51:36#3
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I disagree. Why should they have their rights taken from them because of their sexuality? How does it affect the child in a negative way? How is having homosexual parents a disadvantage? Please answer these.




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New Post! Nov 25, 2008 @ 17:55:42#4
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i wouldnt want children anyway however it is everyones right to have a child. noone goes around saying that the teenagers pushing prams are bad parents, so why should homosexual couples be denied a right based on orientation?

if someone said to you one day that you were not allowed children because you are straight(never gonna happen but go with me here) how would you feel? would you feel as tho your civil liberties had been enfringed?




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i think that its actually better for a child to have homosexual parents. Not that its natural, which it obviously isnt, but i belie that it would bring them up to be much more understanding, open and (quite steriotypicly) caring as an individual, then having heterosexual parents. I dont think that having gay or lesbian parents will encourage you to be gay. To me, that sounds absurd.

Is it not human rights to have a child? Regardless of your sexual orientation?






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New Post! Nov 25, 2008 @ 18:08:44#6
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if your parents influenced ur sexuality then surrly there would never have been homosexuals in the first place. so to say that gay parents will produce gay children is absurd to say the least.




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Or "the sight of you makes my penis/vagina happy"
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forensicgrl94 said:

if your parents influenced ur sexuality then surrly there would never have been homosexuals in the first place. so to say that gay parents will produce gay children is absurd to say the least.



produce may be the wrong word but generally yeah

have some fuuuun stuff (:





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New Post! Nov 25, 2008 @ 18:20:53#8
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im not american but its funny anyways




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Or "the sight of you makes my penis/vagina happy"
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im not american but its funny anyways



me neither, but it tackles most of the thread poster's points





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yes, and notice they havnt responded to a single post on there own thread...




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HINCKLEYLAD said:

i believe the family unit of a man and woman is the best place for children to be brought up, i really hate it when i read in the press that gay male couples and lesbian couples adopt children.

a child deserves to be brought up properly in a proper family unit, it is a a big disadvantage growing up in a gay family household. It will from an early age be brainwashed into believing what it sees is normal behaviour, this will no doubt affect the child on growing up and developing its own sexuality.

now i am not anti-gay/lesbian, i believe people have the right to choose what sexual orientation they are, but i do believe that if choosing the gay lifestyle, you therefore give up your right to be parents, anyone agree/disagree



I completely disagree.

A child doesn't suffer or is lacking in any proper upbringing or morals if they are raised by a gay/lesbian couple. As long as their adoptive parents love them, care for them, do all that they can for them, it shouldn't matter what their sexual orientation is.

There are so many disfunctional HETEROSEXUAL parents and marriages out there. Kids in those households can/will grow up to think it's OK to hit, yell, treat your spouse horribly.

I find to that a lot (not all) of people that are against gay/lesbians adopting have not or would not have friends that are homosexual. You have to get to know someone before you can judge their 'parenting capabilities'. You can't generalize.



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New Post! Nov 26, 2008 @ 01:05:13#13
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HINCKLEYLAD said:

i believe the family unit of a man and woman is the best place for children to be brought up,


Thats nice. Do you have evidence that its the best place? Or that being raised by a gay couple is bad?

HINCKLEYLAD said:

i really hate it when i read in the press that gay male couples and lesbian couples adopt children.

a child deserves to be brought up properly in a proper family unit, it is a a big disadvantage growing up in a gay family household. It will from an early age be brainwashed into believing what it sees is normal behaviour, this will no doubt affect the child on growing up and developing its own sexuality.


Once again, any evidence of this?

Oh i see. They are a minority so therefore they are not normal and therefore bad?

Logically then, living in a society where the majority of people are gay the children should be taken away from straight people?

No doubt affect the childs sexuality? I think you should do some research


HINCKLEYLAD said:

now i am not anti-gay/lesbian, i believe people have the right to choose what sexual orientation they are, but i do believe that if choosing the gay lifestyle, you therefore give up your right to be parents, anyone agree/disagree



I disagree. You're claiming that they aren't normal people, that being gay is bad, that they "brainwash" children and are unfit parents. Sounds extremely anti-gay to me.
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New Post! Nov 26, 2008 @ 15:15:13#14
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by being gay/lesbian, nature dictates that you cannot produce children, by adopting such an un-natural lifestyle you therefore opt out of the right to have children.

i am against gay adoption, and against gay marriage, but do not oppose the individual for making the choice to be gay.

as a christian i cannot understand why society has accepted such a gross concept, but then again thirty years of politically correct/liberal brain washing of the masses may have a lot to do with it.

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damn liberals!
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anyhoo, alot of people would take issue with the assertion that its a 'choice', you can't choose who you're attracted too.

they can't have children themselves obviously but they can certainly provide loving enviroments that children need.




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