Why do women get upset at guys for checking them out? When they go out wearing next to nothing? Of course we're going to look, you're looking good. Take it for the compliment it is.

On the same note, I can here some women saying, "but you don't have to look, you can tell us we're looking good". Maybe so, but in my experiences I've found it hard to give a woman a compliment without it being mistaken for a pickup line, and turned it into something it's not.

So we look....we're bad. We give you a compliment on looking good, we're a sleazy pick up line kinda guy? Where do we draw this line?

Exactly! But I can still see me getting slammed for this topic....but I felt it had to be said.

If the women tell the truth they are flattered when they dress up and we as men look. However they do get a little nervous if we act on it in some ways. It is a pleasant sight though when you see a woman dressed up in a sexy way, it's in our genes (jeans). lol

I'm going to walk down the road naked BUT DONT LOOK AT ME!

Yea... I dunno... good question though.

I think its more about HOW its put across hey.

If theres 5 guys wolf whistling it can be quite intimidating when you are on your own.

Having said that, ive noticed that no matter what a guy says, a girl can find a way to take it the wrong way if shes in a mood.

My ex said to me once 'look at that old cpl holding hands, they look so in love, i want that to be us', to which i responded 'what, are you saying im old?' before i thought about what he had said.

Ooops

hahahaha nice one!

I don't agree with the wolf whistling and all that. I mean more like at a bar or something.

Kind of made me think about another double standard though. A girl can slap a guy on the butt and get away with it, but if a guy does it he gets slapped.

Now, this actually happened to me, a girl slapped my butt, so I slapped hers back, she got angry and yelled at me "You have No right to do that". So in my state of confusion, I said nothing and returned to my drink to think about what just happened lol.

If a woman dress sleazy, she want for man to look at her.

But maybe she want respect too, but too dumb to know how to get both? Or why she get angry? It stand to reason if woman walk round with her a** hanging out, man is going to look, even then other woman look!

Smart woman know how to be sexy with mind, and with minimal skin show.

i never dress sleezy..may dress a bit provocatively but yes i dont mind guys looking ..it is a compliment ...why would i mind..the only thing i do mind is if the guy thinks it is an open invitation to just come up and think im looking for sex and put there hands on you...lol..you guys will never get it right

Ah but not all us guys are just looking for sex either. I've told a girl she looked great, and I quote "f*** off, not interested" was the reply.

All I wanted to do was give her a compliment, and for her to take the compliment for what it was. So I'm not sure if ALL the blame could be put on us?