I do everything for my bf, i do the cooking the cleaning and even look after his little boy. Dont get me wrong i dont mind doing any of this but but when i dont feel as if he appriciates me it gets a little bit frustrating when he aint had to do anything but be on his pc which is totally all fun and pleasure.

Is it all men i wanna know or am i stuck with a selfish one ?

When in a situation you must ask yourself how you allowed yourself to get there.

If you feel unappreciated then stop doing what you are doing. Do not allow yourself to be taken for granted.

This breeds contempt, hence your assumption that all men are unappreciative.

It is your choice, continue the way you are or just stop being a mother to him and start being a partner.

Make sure he knows that his mother doesn't live there.

Ive tried that hun but then nothin gets done and im a house proud person so cant leave it for to long but i think your right i am defo taken for granted x

Nah mate, I rule, ace cook and share chores in all relationships I've ever had. Right from the off, dating, it's first she cooks for me, then I cook for her. Seems to work for as a way of making everything a partnership.

However I am single so this may not work! In my experience with women, you lot love a bloke to be a complete bastard!

My boyfriend often does more around my house than I do... but all men are different, and if you confront yours about these issues you may just see him change his tune. =)

Every relationship has problems. And every partner feels stressed, hurt, and even unappreciated at times (even the men). It's how to resolve to work through the hard times that defines what kind of relationship you're in.

how YOU*** resolve through the hard times.. Dumb keys...sticking.. *grumblegrumble*

Its very true most woman like a bastard but mine is just selfish. In the first couple of months in our relationship he done everything as it being his house then i started to help and he stopped once i moved in. We ave talked bout this matter but im still waiting for things to change which could take a while i think x

My hubby appreciates all that I do, and I appreciate all that he does. It should not be the way it is for you. You deserve happiness and respect.

The problem here is that you feel like you have no options.

My Mum is with a bloke who recently turned around and said she's too fat for him to have sex with her. The irony is, although this bothers her greatly, she doesn't fancy him either. They are simply staying together because they share a mortgage.

Finance, kids or legality are no reason to stay together. This is a f***ed up century.

I think he has been living on his own that long that his forgotten how to include and treat everything equal his just loving the fact that everything is done for him but if this situation does continue then i will change it as im no door matt for anyone x

I agree completely Arakasi. What happened to the days when people shared their lives together because they were *blanch* in love?