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Aug 02, 2009 @ 00:14:40

Kristy69

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After 3 months? 1 month? 3rd date? 1st date?
Should women wait until you say it?
Or would that make you self-conscience?
Are you freaked out when we say it too early?
Or disappointed when it's way late?

When, IN YOUR OPINION, is the best time (for a girl) to say 'I love you'?

Or at least, when should we expect it from you?

Edited: August 02, 2009 @ 00:23

Aug 02, 2009 @ 00:22:52

alexkidd

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24/M/in a bog, Ireland
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After 3 months? 1 month? 3rd date? 1st date?

--There's no timescale, say it when you feel it and know it's real.

Should women wait until you say it?

--No, it doesn't matter who says it first as long as you both feel it.

Or would that make you self-conscience?

--Not at all, at the very least it's incredibly flattering and at the best one of the best moments of your life.

Are you freaked out when we say it too early?

--Nope, sometimes people need different periods of time in order to know it.

Or disappointed when it's way late?

--No... I'd be dissapointed if the feelings were never returned but not if they just take their time.

When, IN YOUR OPINION, is the best time (for a girl) to say 'I love you'?

--When you're drunk
Basically anytime it feels right, when you have a quite moment that makes you think 'wow I love this person', that's the time to say it.

Or at least, when should we expect it from you?

--It depends on the guy really.

There's my two cents

Aug 02, 2009 @ 18:06:08

rocket48

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49/NA/, Texas
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Go ahead and get it over with Kristie. I know you love me 8O:

The word "love" is so often used and when it is first used, usually it is used casually. Love grows it doesn't just appear. I either say or or they say, and the rest is is history. Saying I love you doesn;t mean I want to spend the rest of my life with you.

Aug 03, 2009 @ 05:56:06

diomedes

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16/M/Long Beach, California
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I'd rather hear "I love you" when I reciprocate the feeling.

Sep 10, 2009 @ 10:04:12

foryou

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24/M/amman, Jordan
Join Date: Sep 2009

its not about time in my opinion.. its when you feel that you have to say it then say it... even if its after one look

Sep 10, 2009 @ 10:19:12

kaydoh

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I have to really feel it before I would say it, but that might be a few weeks, or it might be several months. It's not something you should say and not mean, so when you feel it, you say it..

If You're right there is no need to shout, if you're wrong then there is little point in shouting.

Sep 25, 2009 @ 21:40:12

TankGirl

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27/F/Dublin, Ireland
Join Date: Jun 2009

You should say it when you feel it, and you should never say it if you don't mean it.

Or...

You should wait until you feel its a two way thing, and say it when you think the other party is ready to share their feelings too.

Edited: September 25, 2009 @ 21:43

Sep 25, 2009 @ 21:46:00

jeanettesianrachel

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theres no time limit someone called love at first sight,some can fall in love after being friends for a few yrs (as in my case )its a individual thing and shouldnt be said just cos the other person said it (i thought all men did when having sex,yeah yeah course i love ya ) x

my beautiful michael
i have put your very being deep within my heart,i can take it out,touch it,love it,cherish it,put it back again that way we will never be apart

Sep 26, 2009 @ 00:54:15

smilelove

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I was just thinking about this the other day. It's a really hard question to answer. I guess when you're unsure, don't say it, but I don't think I'd say it before a month.

Smile Love, It looks great on you!

Sep 26, 2009 @ 04:22:37

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jr_sanford

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55/M/Chehalis, Washington
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Only say it "I Love You" when you really mean it and feel compelled to let the person you love know that fact. What I think is strange, is, when the teller expects to hear it in return. Love is unconditional. No strings (please). Keep it simple. Love is universal. Love keeps the world turning.

I can only hope that this world comes around and discovers that Love IS the ANSWER. Man oh man, would that event bring Humanity in touch with one another. I truly believe that event would mean the end of Humanity as we know it and the beginning of a new existence as one evolved into the Spiritual realm.

J.R.

Cast aside Your limitations;
And You shall be boundless.

Oct 12, 2009 @ 09:50:02

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townie_guy

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There is no proper time to say it. At end of day you may never love a certain person. If you love them and you think they feell the same and it wont scare them off then tell them.

First Date: If someone told me that they loved me after one date, I would be pretty scared because to be honest, after one date they probably wouldnt know me all that well. Also there would not have been any time for feelings to develop so it would not be true love.

Never judge a book by its cover. U may be surprised.

Oct 16, 2009 @ 01:15:15

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camaro67

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28/M/Pearsall, Texas
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There is no time limit when you should say it or not. when you feel it and you know in your heart that this is the one then say it. never hold back your feelings.

Oct 25, 2009 @ 19:46:05

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blacksun

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19/M/scarborough, United Kingdom
Join Date: Oct 2009

there isn't a deadline when love arrives instead it comes when it comes, you can't force love. love comes through a lot of things. trust, respect, knwoing that person in everyway is when you will know if you love them or not

Oct 25, 2009 @ 20:32:47

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Kristy69

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I can tell you what, I'm prety much starting to fall for Eric.

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