I am prolife but also prochoice. I do not like abortion, but think it is up to the individual, because you can not know what the person is going through.

Having said that, I agree that if this is an on going important relationship, you should tell him. If you care enough to share your body with him, care enough to share the truth with him. Let us know what you decide and how it goes.

that whole pro-life, pro-choice bull crap is bull-s**t
pro-lifer's are pro-choicer's the pro-lifer's are making the correct decisions for single minded fools.

id say you come off more single-minded in that post...


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I have stayed out of this thread for a bit, as i have experience in this matter...

Question is when do you tell the father? When you are long past having a abortion or when your in the clinic via text.. "sorry hunni, im aborting your child".. it pisses me off that this whole thing about resposabilty of children, men being made to look after there kids, 50/50 and all that, and there is a debate of whether she should tell the father... God damn it yes, she should be there right now talking to him. It doenst matter about who he is or why she is having a abortion, he needs to know. And what ever the outcome the father needs to be invovled from day one.
You can go and have the abortion and then there will be a day when someone slips up and says to him you aborted his child. Us men are strange when it comes to this, as you women have 99% of the control, and we just learn about what is going on, like our opinion/feelings/state of mind/future wont be effected by a child aborted or other wise. We seem to think because the government has dictated to women with Roe vrs wade case in america back in the late 60s/70s, women have control over there body and wont be dictated to., then apprently thats fine.. and it is.. if you want t abort tell him. if you want the kid.. tell HIM! and you are honest from day one. then you will never have a problem with bringing your child up or moving on from a abortion.

The choice is yours to abort.. but the father has a moral right to know. After all what type of people are we without morals??



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it sounds like she had already decided what she was going to do tho... and if the father is like a one nighter or something and shes going to do it whether he gets to have his say or not... if you were that guy, would you want to know if ur vote wasnt going to count?

if she wants a continuing relationship or friendship with him, then she should for sure...


living life for its random experiences and their consequences

following impulses will ensure a life rich with unpredictability

everything in writing and contract form with the government!!!

even of time of heat

yes humans have heat... spring etc...

i agree finally thank the lord almighty a soldier has arrived!!!

SEX IN WRITING!!!

WTF??? a form for what? consent to have sex? consent to allow a woman to have an abortion??

is it funny friday or what?


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ya... im a bit unclear on the 'consent for what' thing too...


living life for its random experiences and their consequences

following impulses will ensure a life rich with unpredictability

funny friday indeed im not having sex with a girl without a signed contract.

that is an interesting idea...


living life for its random experiences and their consequences

following impulses will ensure a life rich with unpredictability