The full story...

Ok, I can feel a big one coming....be prepared!

So my best friend from back home S, fell in love with B. S & B had never met, but only spoke on the internet for B lived in Australia and S lived in London. After 3 year of talking, S & B are so in love that B offers to come over for 6 months. He comes over, they are even more in love and goes home for 6 more months, but only to come back to England permanently.

Now everything was running smoothly, until she started speaking to her ex again R. She used to go to R's house at weekends just to catch up and watch movies. She then admitted to me after about 4 months of going to his house that she had been secretly sleeping with R. Stupid woman! To top it off, she was not using protection with either of them.

So a few awkward weeks go by, and she decides she no longer loves B and wants him to go back home to Australia. B then finds out that S & R were sleeping together, so makes a decision to go back to Australia in a few months, when he has saved enough for a plane ticket.

I thought it was all over...but nooooooooo, she is pregnant... Doesn't know who the daddy is, and doesn't know what to do. She finally tells B about this unborn child, and have both decided to get rid of it.

What the hell goes through peoples minds when they do these things? I mean an abortion is not some kind of contraceptive. It is a human life, something that should not be taken advantage of. My mum was alone, scared and 18, but she still had me. She still decided that i was worth it. I don't support abortion, and am definately not judging people who do. BUT the way this has come about seems so selfish and i just do not agree at all. I am devestated for the babies sake...Not even been given that chance. I know some of you may say its for the best, and its not an environment that a child should be brought into. But still, this is a life. Something that should not be taken lightly. If my mum was scared about the situation, i would not be here today...

Very disappointed to be honest...

You're stressing hun. I'm with you I think there were alternatives but at the same time it's perfectly legal. It's such a shame she didn't have to take responsbility

This whole thing has just given me a massive headache. I've been the one stuck inbetween them all for the last year! And i'm sick of trying to help her! I'm sick of giving her advice and her not following it through! She should know better!

Dont help or give advice! She wont listen, just do the whole 'i told you so' and then just be supportive (if you can still stand her )
Giving advice is pointless because people never listen!

Don't expect me to help you when you need it then Greg!

It just irritates me, you wouldn't think that one person could be so stupid, and then continue to be so stupid...