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jorie_13
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#1New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 02:45:04
My Baby said his first swear word the other day. And while it's not SUPPOSED to be cute, it frikkin' WAS! (no I didn't let HIM know this)
I started working on my language when I was pregnant. And while I may have toned it down A LOT, it still comes out of my mouth more than it should.
It used to be SO easy when I was younger and it came to not cussing in front of my parents, or older people... It was like I had a switch, an on and off SWEAR switch, lol. I was good at turning it off too! Now... Not so much. I guess it just got too easy!

Any suggestions? Seems swearing is proving harder for me to quit than smoking was!
On about 13 hours ago
Willi
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north in, Illinois
#2New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 02:47:55
put a nickle in a jar everytime you do it.
then one day, you should have lotsa nickles.
On April 30, 2013
jorie_13
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#3New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 02:52:57
@Willi Said

put a nickle in a jar everytime you do it.
then one day, you should have lotsa nickles.

Well s***, even at a nickel, I may just go broke!
On about 13 hours ago
eternus_somnium
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#4New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 02:53:51
Rubber band on the wrist- snap it whenever you catch yourself swearing?
On May 10, 2013
Willi
this could be heaven





north in, Illinois
#5New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 02:58:38
@jorie_13 Said

Well s***, even at a nickel, I may just go broke!



ok, s*** is a penny, f*** is a nickel
On April 30, 2013
Willi
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north in, Illinois
#6New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:00:21
find substitute words.
On April 30, 2013
jorie_13
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#7New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:01:01
@eternus_somnium Said

Rubber band on the wrist- snap it whenever you catch yourself swearing?

Dude. You're cruel!
Kiddin'... But IDK, I'm kind of... funny when it comes to pain... I might start swearing MORE! Ya never know tho! And it's cheaper than a swear jar!
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eternus_somnium
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#8New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:05:03
@jorie_13 Said

Dude. You're cruel!
Kiddin'... But IDK, I'm kind of... funny when it comes to pain... I might start swearing MORE! Ya never know tho! And it's cheaper than a swear jar!



That's just something I always hear about people using as a way to break certain habits.
On May 10, 2013
jorie_13
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#9New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:11:28
@eternus_somnium Said

That's just something I always hear about people using as a way to break certain habits.

Yeah, I've heard it, too. Never tried it tho... Maybe if my mind knows it's for punishment, lol...
I really just don't want my kid growing up talking like that. My parents didn't cuss around us, but I still ended up with a BAD potty mouth. Maybe it was the rebel in me.
Mebbe I'll pretend he's old. I still don't cuss in front of old people. Unless I'v heard them cuss, lol.
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jorie_13
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#10New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:12:15
Hmmm... Maybe I just need a different mentality, and not a punishment...
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Dark_Tink
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, Canada
#11New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:13:47
For me, I use other words. It may get you a few looks if you say "Sugar" instead of "s***", but it's worth not having the little ones pick up on the bad words.

f*** - Fudge
Damn - Dang
Jesus Christ - Cheese and Rice
Bastard - Bugger
Son of a b**** - Washing a dish (just came up with that one)

One I say a lot to substitute any swear word(s) is "Geezim Crow". I've been saying that one for years.

My little guy who's 4, says "Dang it!" if something happens that he gets upset about.
On about 5 hours ago
DiscordTiger
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Emerald City, United States (g
#12New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:27:18
@Dark_Tink Said

For me, I use other words. It may get you a few looks if you say "Sugar" instead of "s***", but it's worth not having the little ones pick up on the bad words.

f*** - Fudge
Damn - Dang
Jesus Christ - Cheese and Rice
Bastard - Bugger
Son of a b**** - Washing a dish (just came up with that one)

One I say a lot to substitute any swear word(s) is "Geezim Crow". I've been saying that one for years.

My little guy who's 4, says "Dang it!" if something happens that he gets upset about.


my father used to use son of a biscuit.

though isn't bugger an actual curse word too and not "acceptable in polite company"?
I mean in that context kinda went from calling someone "illegitimate" to buttf***er?


Oh yeah, and i have a hard time not swearing myself, though I'm not around kids so much, but it's getting harder at work.
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jorie_13
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#13New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:34:52
@Dark_Tink Said

For me, I use other words. It may get you a few looks if you say "Sugar" instead of "s***", but it's worth not having the little ones pick up on the bad words.

f*** - Fudge
Damn - Dang
Jesus Christ - Cheese and Rice
Bastard - Bugger
Son of a b**** - Washing a dish (just came up with that one)

One I say a lot to substitute any swear word(s) is "Geezim Crow". I've been saying that one for years.

My little guy who's 4, says "Dang it!" if something happens that he gets upset about.

OK, first of all... What the FLOCK is that in your avvy???

Yes, that's how I've toned it down this far. LOL. I've said pretty funny stuff instead of the actual words... The bit by Bill Cosby comes to mind, where he substitutes a bunch of glibbety-glob for the cussing. ( I couldn't find the damn clip)
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jorie_13
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#14New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:42:53
@DiscordTiger Said

my father used to use son of a biscuit.

though isn't bugger an actual curse word too and not "acceptable in polite company"?
I mean in that context kinda went from calling someone "illegitimate" to buttf***er?


Oh yeah, and i have a hard time not swearing myself, though I'm not around kids so much, but it's getting harder at work.

I didn't know a bugger was a buttf***er.
I find 'sunny beaches' a good substitute for son of a b****...
s*** usually becomes 'shiiooooot.' lol
f*** usually does become 'fuuuudge.' When I switch it, as it IS my fave. Surprising that that one should be Baby's first one, huh! At least he used it right.
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DiscordTiger
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Emerald City, United States (g
#15New Post! Sep 14, 2011 @ 03:46:22
@jorie_13 Said

I didn't know a bugger was a buttf***er.
I find 'sunny beaches' a good substitute for son of a b****...
s*** usually becomes 'shiiooooot.' lol
f*** usually does become 'fuuuudge.' When I switch it, as it IS my fave. Surprising that that one should be Baby's first one, huh! At least he used it right.



I guess buggery is buggery, and when you direct it at a person that would make them a person that engages in buggery.
I think I mostly know that because tfs censors that word so well maybe my sentence says "buggery is buggery" and this makes no sense.

anyway I'd equate it as a less well known way to call someone "f***er", only your average american won't get it, its one of those words like w**ker.
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