Self-conscious women

Nothing is more attractive than quiet confidence...

A woman who is overtly self - conscious about her body is shooting herself in the foot by making herself SEEM less attractive through attitude.

By my standards that was a bloody nice thing to say....

Every woman has her.... feminine charms, that are hers and hers alone.

Oh, and of course I dont have shame so i've never understood the whole self conscious thing.

It really deosnt bother men what a womans body looks like. yes some guys can be vain just like girls but to me if you have a great personality and we have fun.. who cares about the funny shaped b*** or flappy fanny.

Or a teeeny bit of extra weight?

Nope dont bother me.. nor most guys in my opinion. see to me a beautiful lady is one that understands herself and excepts who she is. once that happens you will be totally happy.

flappy fanny,

as you get olderyou dont have so many hang ups,but i did when i was a teen,god did i,i was to thin,to fat,

American fanny or British fanny?

Nice avatar btw, one of my faves.

British..

Yes, beauty is in the eye of the behold

i hate it the most when men have to have skinny or thin women!! ugh its frustrating because big women or as i should say thick women have heart too and when someone puts her down then she wants to lose weight or stop eating. i think people should keep there comments to themselves because it hurts. I have had it done to me and i know how it feels. But WOmen be strong because remember we make babies without us then some men would be nothing. Just hold your heads up high and be proud of who you are and love yourself. Not all of us are made perfect!!

Im like that. i just cant help it. at all

Skin is skin...we all have it...so why be self-conscious?

I can understand being self-conscious if you have a deformity or a major scar but for the sake of this discussion I will assume that the OP was referring to "normal" women.

I do NOT understand being self-conscious about how you look. I get very annoyed listening to people complain about this "flaw" or that one when they do NOTHING to change anything.

One woman I know has been telling me for ten years that she needs to loose 20 pounds but she hasn't spent two days on a diet in all that time.

Confidence is the sexiest thing about a person, but sometimes I'll feel sympathetic toward someone who is self-conscious about something and I'll focus on a different quality or feature of their's because God knows there are plenty of things I'm not proud of that I'd like to change about myself. Everybody has something to be proud of that makes them unique.
Also, I joke around a lot, but one thing I'll NEVER make fun at is someone's perceived physical flaws. It's just not cool to poke fun at something that they're already self-conscious about.

Not a turn off, but when it finds its way to disrupt a relationship...It can get really annoying...sometimes cute, but annoying.

-tk5tankone

thats just more fore the love in part guys dont want a tooth pick girlfreind alot of guys i see myself including me
rather have a girl with a little extra weight
those toothpicks hurt and are way to bony to un sightly on the eyes when you see bones you need something to hold on to !
gotta grab onto something for the ride and be damn proud of who and what you have its all in who you are with
there's ass's on both side's of the fence men and women
the personality is the big issue for me and alot for the guys to
the first thing i notice is the eyes , and the personality
if you dont have a good personality your best mate or freind will be a vibrator