Demented said:
Most projects I seem to start lately end up being a case of"I must do Battle".I get told I have no patience by Tracey,I tell her Patience is a virtue thats void in my body
That's because there are many unforeseen issues that come with helping others. Some will take full advantage of it and just load more and more on you.
Some will ask or you'll offer and they will nit pick at everything you have done out of kindness and their picky ways starts to creep into you and the resentment starts. It's not an offer of kindness anymore it's become a JOB you have to do which means they've taken full advantage of your kindness making you lose your wanting to do it to something you have to do which is oceans apart.
When it gets to that point of resentment with me, I tell them I took this on as a favor and to be helpful but you have turned it into a very nasty JOB and I didn't sign up for that so either you quit what you're doing or I quit. Which will it be?
Oh! They fuss and try to make you feel guilty but the bottom line is it's not a content project anymore so if they're not your boss, let them know how you're feeling about it without anger or hitting and if nothing is resolved, LEAVE!
