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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 22:54:10#16
alexkidd
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odie said:
it really degrades women & makes them feel inferior.


to bad men don't realize this, if married or have a girlfriend......................and no, its not because I am old or a prude.

Most women feel this way at any age.


honestly, i think that's their problem,
as long as the women participating in it are adults and consenting then its ok by me.

in regards looking at porn while in a relationship then it really depends on the people, its a personal matter.
and certainly not all girls are opposed to it, i know women who arn't.


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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 22:54:39#17
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Not all women feel degraded by it. I agree it is in that it teaches adolescents who see it that that is how they should treat women. Totally wrong. Aside from that though, it really depends. There are more reason why some girls get into the industry that you can shake a stick at. Some have some kind of deep rooted mental issue centering around sex or sexual abuse, some just like doing it, some see it as a form of expression.

Some(I know a few personally) find watching porn to be a turn on and/or good way to kill time. x2


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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 23:02:04#18
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Quote:
it really degrades women & makes them feel inferior.


No.

NO.

NO AGIAN.

Dog shows degrade dogs, how do you think dogs at home would feel about seeing other dogs on TV all polished up. It makes them feel inferior to other dogs.

Perhaps the dogs watching the dog shows have a very low opinion of themselfs and we should cater to the dogs at home by baning it all together.

We might want to put a age limit on the dog shows so immature dogs that could possibly be watching won't have thier early devolpment hindered in anyway.

I have a suggestion, why don't the dogs that have a problem with the dog shows simply not watch them and let the rest of the dogs have thier fun and win prizes and stuff.




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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 23:03:12#19
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eternus_somnium said:
Eh, no point in having the same thing posted 3 times


stop hyjacking!
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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 23:08:52#20
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bmobsessed27 said:
I'm not really into porn. I just don't buy into it. The whole scenerio just seems fake to me. Not that I judge people who watch it. I'm more literal I guess. Give me a good book or erotica story and I'm good.


me too


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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 23:10:13#21
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odie said:
stop hyjacking!


Er.. I hope you're just kidding.
All i meant was I posted the same thing you and someone else did so I edited it..
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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 23:11:17#22
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vekta said:
Not all women feel degraded by it. I agree it is in that it teaches adolescents who see it that that is how they should treat women. Totally wrong. Aside from that though, it really depends. There are more reason why some girls get into the industry that you can shake a stick at. Some have some kind of deep rooted mental issue centering around sex or sexual abuse, some just like doing it, some see it as a form of expression.

Some(I know a few personally) find watching porn to be a turn on and/or good way to kill time. x2


it is a turn on, wasn't saying that.

but some women feel like they cannot ever be like them (girls in the porno's)---- which are driving their man out of their minds at the time.

So the man gets extrmely horny watching these, comes home and bonks their wife/girlfriend while thinking of what he had just seen.....therefore some women feel they are not good enough as the porn girls are...............which they aren't.
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Edited: April 04, 2008 @ 23:12
New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 23:13:28#23
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doubtingthomas said:
No.

NO.

NO AGIAN.

Dog shows degrade dogs, how do you think dogs at home would feel about seeing other dogs on TV all polished up. It makes them feel inferior to other dogs.

Perhaps the dogs watching the dog shows have a very low opinion of themselfs and we should cater to the dogs at home by baning it all together.

We might want to put a age limit on the dog shows so immature dogs that could possibly be watching won't have thier early devolpment hindered in anyway.

I have a suggestion, why don't the dogs that have a problem with the dog shows simply not watch them and let the rest of the dogs have thier fun and win prizes and stuff.




comparing women to performing dogs is however quite degrading indeed


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New Post! Apr 04, 2008 @ 23:20:15#24
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Your the one making that connection, I just happen to take the feelings of dogs into considation at this particular point.


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New Post! Apr 05, 2008 @ 00:09:16#25
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forget I even tried to explain.

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New Post! Apr 05, 2008 @ 00:13:17#26
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alexkidd said:
comparing women to performing dogs is however quite degrading indeed



to dogs


kidding lol


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New Post! Apr 05, 2008 @ 00:19:51#27
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odie said:
forget I even tried to explain.


i understood your point, it does make some women feel bad.
but thats a personal issue, the women taking part are consenting.
so there's nothing wrong with it in my eyes.

its a danger that certain types of people can become addicted to it, and loose relationships over it, it can be a very negative influence in the lives of some people.
but i don't see that as any reason for thinking that its wrong.

most people enjoy it innocently and without harm to anyone, like any vice, gambling say. dangerous thing to have in a society, carries alot of the same problems, but its peoples choice.

basically if you want to respect your partner, find out if she approves of pornography and if it makes her feel inferiour as a woman and act on that, not on some pre assigned right or wrong that doesn't take in peoples personal circumstances into consideration.


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New Post! Apr 05, 2008 @ 02:46:06#28
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alexkidd said:
i understood your point, it does make some women feel bad.
but thats a personal issue, the women taking part are consenting.
so there's nothing wrong with it in my eyes.

its a danger that certain types of people can become addicted to it, and loose relationships over it, it can be a very negative influence in the lives of some people.
but i don't see that as any reason for thinking that its wrong.

most people enjoy it innocently and without harm to anyone, like any vice, gambling say. dangerous thing to have in a society, carries alot of the same problems, but its peoples choice.

basically if you want to respect your partner, find out if she approves of pornography and if it makes her feel inferiour as a woman and act on that, not on some pre assigned right or wrong that doesn't take in peoples personal circumstances into consideration.




nicely said, and I gave you kudos for that one!

Because we were asked by the poster what we thought.....that is why I answered.

NOT all women think that way, but I do know tons that do.

was just expressing my opinion, as asked.

thanks, great wright-up, made alot of sense!



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Edited: April 05, 2008 @ 02:48
New Post! Apr 05, 2008 @ 03:04:24#29
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I am 45, female and have always loved porn. Of course only certain types appeal to my taste but I see nothing wrong with it
Much like everthing else in life, If you don't like it change the channel or don't buy it.

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Edited: April 05, 2008 @ 03:05
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