Do you feel scared talking to girls or boys under 16... espacially with the current climate of Pedophile problems..

I must admitt, i feel very warey but not on TFS...

Can people under 16, tell us your veiw?? as well as us men.. oh and you girls over 18 what do you think about the situation and how you and we feel??


Nothing has turned out as we expected. It never does. Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect. We take what we get and are thankful it's no worse than it is.

depends if the person who is over 18 is talking to me in a "too chatty way"


NeroSkunky

I think you are right to feel cautious. I think its a shame it has come to that.

As for why you guys feel like that i dont really know. There are alot of younger girls that look ALOT older than their age.

There is also alot of stories of boy who cried wolf (perhaps i should change that to girl).

I think that a mixture of both of these reasons (and probably more) make you guys abit on edge so to speak.

Just my view though

Yeh, the first thing i look at is what age someone is.
If someones under 16 then i'm very warey of what i reply,

I once had a 15 year old girl on another site say she like older men, and fancied meeting up... see that to me is the scarest thing in the world... She may have been a nice girl.. but i may have been a bad man.. or worse still they may have the police entrapping people... sad isnt it...


Nothing has turned out as we expected. It never does. Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect. We take what we get and are thankful it's no worse than it is.

i am under 16 no longer so theres no need to be scared to talk to me


NeroSkunky

A lad where i worked met up with a couple of girls of the net,
He's 27, the girls said they were 21.

When he saw them they were about 14!!!

Very dodgey.

Saying that, i remember when i was 21, a girl who lived in the same street as me was 14.
One Friday night i was in a nightclub and she was in there!!!
But all dressed up and looked at least 18, she was tall which helped her.
She had loads of blokes all over her all night, and i thought if they only knew!! the following monday she was back at school, scarey stuff.

I don't have a problem talking to girls younger than me but I don't think I would ever date anyone any younger than 18.


But I definitly try to watch what I say.

That is pretty sick. I hope your mate didn't stay with them after that!

They should have been escorted off the premesis at that age. That is what i am saying. They look so much older than they are.

For example me and a couple of the guys i work with went to the local park. They were bird watching as men do, and they spotted these two girls, had i not have known that they were both only 14 they would have been over there like a flash. Scary