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Forum Index > Relationships > Man Talk | >> Is it true you always love the mothers of your children? | | |
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DuLu
Ogler
21905 points
49/F/Waterfront,, Washington
Join Date: Apr 2009 | Well, not the person as an individual - the mom because she is the one who carried them till delivery and then delivered 'his' children into this world. In the reverse, my dad was not a good father, but without him, I wouldn't be who I am today, or what I am today, so there is a birth bond for that reason. But many times, the dad doesn't love the mom as a person, he loves her 'because' she is the mother of his children. And many times, the child may not respect or have positive feelings towards the absent mom or dad, but they love him/her 'because' they are the mom or the dad.
As long as people will accept crap, it will be financially profitable to dispense it! (d*** Cavett) |  | | Edited: August 02, 2009 @ 22:17 |  |
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Marcussextus
Über Master Debater
8576 points
55/M/Darwin, Australia
Join Date: Aug 2009 | It was vaguely true for me.
I raised my three alone as she had moved on, from nappy times, we parted fairly amicably although she refused all contact and paid no support. But when my youngest, our daughter, tracked her down after her 18th, my ex' rejected her cruelly, and I'll never be able to forgive her for that low act. It wrought great trauma on my daughter, and changed her forever. I had never put my ex' down, always told the kids that she really did love them, as I thought she did, and I never in my wildest dreams thought that she would do a thing like that. So, no, it's not always true. | | | |
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abzenze
Über-Meister
1868 points
19/F/unknown, Australia
Join Date: Oct 2008 | Marcussextus said:
It was vaguely true for me.
I raised my three alone as she had moved on, from nappy times, we parted fairly amicably although she refused all contact and paid no support. But when my youngest, our daughter, tracked her down after her 18th, my ex' rejected her cruelly, and I'll never be able to forgive her for that low act. It wrought great trauma on my daughter, and changed her forever. I had never put my ex' down, always told the kids that she really did love them, as I thought she did, and I never in my wildest dreams thought that she would do a thing like that. So, no, it's not always true.
  to your daughter...
your character determines your destiny.. | | | |
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Marcussextus
Über Master Debater
8576 points
55/M/Darwin, Australia
Join Date: Aug 2009 | Thankyou, she survived, her two elder brothers took her into their home and nursed her through it, I couldn't be there unfortunately, though we spoke every day by webcam. They are a tight little unit, I raised them that way, and since what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, my girl is now determined to have a child, and be a GREAT mum, and I believe she WILL be.
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