In reaction to maxi's thread link [www.theforumsite.com] I just want to make a point, Im no life coach expert but I have learnt something of late that, well it works really well for me.

Be POSITIVE. Im serious it bloody works alot more than being negative all the time. When your negative you spiral out of control with your life, constantly dissing things that go wrong and blame others...

Look at it this way, list all the things that annoy you on a day to day biases, If you live at home say your parents or your misses, or your boss, or the council or things like that. From that list what can YOU change to make your life different?? if its nothing you can physically change, then why stress over them?? why let them make you negative?
So if your problems where there 6months ago, and you cant change them, then they will be there in 6months time.... only thing you can do is change your attitude toward them.
If your job is getting you down, try a different emotion when your in work, for instance if your boss and you don't get on, and it makes your life hard, instead of a shouting match or resist the work try and do the work or try and talk to your boss be nice, There your boss they may have got there on a wing and pray but s**t rolls down hill. You treat your boss well, trust me it comes back 10 times! And if you walk around work being positive always happy, people want to know you, trust you more. And that goes to life, dont moan your single all the time, be positive, people for some reason talk to you want to get to know what is your secret to be happy... you may have no money, lonely and hate everyone but the day your positive state of mind happens I bet you will see an instant difference in your life!

If you can slip honesty in there over time, things start to make you feel good, even though it may cause issues, but be positive and you will get things done.

But all that said you gotta take an intelligent approach to being Positive, you cant be positive that your rent will get paid when you have no job or money, but when finding a job be positive at the interview and when you get the job.

try it starting today, raise above the daliy crap, try to be positive to people and say one good thing to your friends and family and colleagues about them everyday. And be honest about it, dont lie. and if you cant say anything nice, then dont say anything at all.

Good Luck.



MosHeaD

Good advice I was just saying a similar thing to my sister, because she's getting stressed out at work and hates going in. I reminded her that it's just a job until she can't get one worthy of a degree, so there's no point in getting upset over it. Especially since the stuff upsetting her isn't really related to her. She's really good at her job, unlike some of the twats she works with.

Yeah that's a nice one! actually i had been so stress and so negative thinker i just can't help it but when i read your post it somehow lifted some weights ei...but i had one question what if you had an enemy for example how can you cope to anger? I mean how can i think positive about it?? Just asking hope you respond...


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