@LuckyCharms Said
I don't mind a bit of kidding around. But what I do find funny is that so many men are so squeamish about it. Medically, it's not like it would be a big deal - a topical is probably applied and you'd feel nothing or close to nothing.
Women get IUD's inserted, take pills that mess with their hormones and bodies, have things inserted under their skin.
I find it... very... odd that so many men are so weird about this.
I would think that as a man, with a simple procedure, to gain complete control of and eliminate the risk of unplanned impregnation, that you would jump at the chance. I think that if I were a man I'd be seriously cheering something like this on. Unless ya'll like that the condom is really your only choice...?
ouch, ouch, ouch, ouch
We should try it on TZ first to see if it is safe.
My libitic proclivities have been mercifully attenuated thanks to age and our friends at Pfizer. There is no one that I am likely to inseminate.
When I was sexually active we always -Always- discussed before coitus what we would do if pregnancy were to result. Always. Not every time but every person. There really weren't that many partners. I am monogamous by nature. I call that informed consent. Everyone involved knew where babies come from and consented to coitus.
Personally I believe that baby having is woman's work (and I know this sounds like a cop-out) but the decisions are the woman's responsibility. The man's responsibility is to support whatever it is that the woman decides. Not everyone feels this way but ...but this is something that should be discussed before coitus.
Standing next to the toilet chanting please be blue is not support.
I never read these long posts but I do tend to write them. Anyway, here comes the however.. However if the woman decides to keep the baby and she is smoking and drinking and using drugs and not getting prenatal care. Then, she is harming both herself and her baby. And ...and I do not believe she is competent. This is something to be discussed BEFORE.