@Dark_Tink Said
But if the 'other person' knows the one they are seeing is married/involved and still go ahead, IMO, they are just as bad. The cheater is an ass, but it takes TWO people.
Again I agree to a point. But again, the other person isnt in that relationship, so theya re not breaking trust. Im not trying to justify it. But if say I ended up in bed with someone who was married, if I didnt know they were married, then I wouldnt be to blame in my eyes. If someone wanted to sleep with me, just to spite their partner, I wouldnt go ahead. Ive had the option before, but Im not gonna be used as some pawn in a chess game in a failing relationship.
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Some people cheat because they think/hope they will get away with it. It's a selfish, arrogant thing. They want their cake and eat it to.
If there is something wrong in a relationship, you DO NOT sleep with someone else to fix it. You work with your partner, not f*** around.
I can only talk from experience. I have been with girls before, who to be honest, there was no spark, no nothing. And I dont mean after a honeymoon persiod either. There was just nothing to keep me there or to want to make a commitment. I was tempted to cheat. I could of. But I decided to end the relationship. As hard as that is, it is better in the long run.
WHen I have been with Girls, and Im like WOW she is amaxzzing, I lose all interest in other people.
But then again, I know some people, who like the security of a relationship as they hate being single. But they still want the perks of the single life.