or you could try not being a doormat perhaps find someone who cares about you enough to take some responsibility for themselves, i hate cleaning up but id hate to have someone i care about have to do something they dont like because of me

Put a lock on your bedroom door; and since you "tried" to be nice, just to be taken for granted in return, in the future, I'd make only enough dinner for myself..let them take care of thierself...they can take your things when they want to easy enough!

Common male VS female complaint.

Male will wait untill there's nothing better to do before he puts it in order.

Females want it in order in all instances.

I think alot of us guys tend to look around and go 'Yup, it's all pretty stupid so I'm going to put myself on a cloud and zone out' and everything around us just sorta fades out as feint grumbling in the background.