I have been married for 14 years and 3 beautiful children. My wife is Bipolar. now my ex best friend of over 20 years is now trying to convince my wife to leave me for him. ( plus he used to date my older sister). He is 45 and my wife is 33. My wife's dad is in the finial stages of aids. So the stress of that is triggering the Bipolar, but he is taking advantage of the situation. He was never married or barly a serious relationship.So he is bull s***ting her with alot of lies. What should I do I love my wife and my family.

I had a "best friend" who was simialr. Now nobody knows we were ever friends and if anyoone asks, I don't know him

Humm..my mom always used to say "there is no such things as best friends, when it comes to romance"..
I'm thinking more and more these days, that this rings true.

But you love your wife, and I'm assuming she loves you too; so, why would he think he can convince her to leave you?

But even if he tried, you'd better be prepared to fight your best fight..keep throwing the truth, and reality in her face to think about.

... speak to ur wife , explain to her about his web of lies.. help her touch ground since she is very emotionally distraught. she needs you most right now and this guy is trying to take ur seat..

try not to overload since too much of anything can add more pressure.. you need to stay stable for her here ..

the simple i love you also helps

Been there, had that, in a matter of speaking. My best mate and I had even named our sons after each other, then he and my wife had an affair. The irony is that I had refused to sleep with HIS wife, when we were all single, because she was a good friend, and screwing THOSE screws the friendship as well. Now SHE won't have anything to do with me, lol, blames ME because he and my wife got it on! Go figure?
My advice is to stand by your missus, and trust in her and yourself, explain to her what you think is going on, and stand back. If it was meant to be, it will be, if not, take a deep breath and move on, there's little you can do.

he is not your best friend... if you really love your woman go fight for it ... but be ready... she might choose your bestfriend.. all is fair in love and war

convince her that your friend is trying to lure her to him so he can sell her as a sex slave in a third world country and torture her everyday.

Convince her that the movie hostel is about your friend.

yeah coleosis thats exactly what he should tell his bipolar wife who is about to lose her dad... i say obviusly this guys no longer your friend and just be there for her.. i dont know the specifics but if she hasnt said anything about considering it, then dont worry about it so much jsut be the best husband you can and show her that you have confidence in your love for each other and that you know that you love each other to much for this bastard to come between you oh adn punch him in the f***in teeth just once so no one can say you didnt fight for it, breeak a leg if you have to